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I'm not sure if this goes here or in life issues. But since it's mostly about girls, I'll put it here.

I think I might be bi. I really like guys, but I also like girls. I think they're beautiful and I want to lick them all over. This actually didn't come to my attention until I was talking to one of my guy friends about yaoi, and he was all "okay, let's not talk about this. Just think of how you would feel if I kept talking about yuri."

Me: "I actually wouldn't mind that. I like yuri."

And he asked if I was bi and I said I really don't know.

See, the thing is, I've never really been attracted to any RL, 3d girls (except Lady Gaga, but everyone is bi for Gaga). I've only ever been attracted to 2d animu girls...

At first I didn't think it counted, since anime characters are designed to be moe, in the first place, so it's only natural you'd be turned on by them.

Except, now I think I may be developing a tiny crush on one of my girl friends. I won't act on it, because it'd be really creepy and also kind of illegal... Only I'm not sure if it's just a girl crush, or just a really close friendship. You know, the kind of really close friendship girls have in anime.

I guess what I want to know is if this counts or not. I'm not scared or anything, and I know my parents will love me no matter what (even if they make fun of me for liking yaoi). It's just something that's been nagging at me for a while...

But...

I don't want to say I'm bi and then, like, offend the lgbt community or anything...

Why am I even worrying about that of all things.

And it's not just that. I like to be at least 70% sure of something before I make it a fact. I have issues I know... ; - ;

Then again, you're probably right. And I guess I can change my mind any time I want...