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Posted: Mon Jul 19, 2010 7:03 pm
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Posted: Tue Jul 20, 2010 6:00 am
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Posted: Tue Jul 20, 2010 8:56 am
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Oh yeah, sorry. My bad. I was trying to hurry up and post stuff and get off of here, so I didn't say anything detailed... at all, I see. Ok, so here goes:
I wear a lot of black. My mom complains about it often, saying "Don't be one of those devil worshipers" and things like that. By "devil worshipers", she means goths. She thinks they're all bad people in some kind of cult, I guess. And I consider myself a goth. Well, she doesn't know that... Every time the subject comes up, I try to explain to her that not all goths are devil worshipers. Goth isn't a cult, it's a lifestyle. And they're just people who have a different outlook on life or feel outcasted and like to be what others call "different" (well, that's how I see it). When I try to tell her that... well, I can't really get any of it out before she drops it. My mom's one of those "old-school mamas", and she's somewhat stuck in her ways. So basically, that's what I want to tell her next time the subject comes up. But I'm thinking after (if I ever do before I'm grown) I get it out and tell her I consider myself a goth, she'll still go down my throat even after I've explained. Any advice on how to talk to her?
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Posted: Tue Jul 20, 2010 3:48 pm
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Posted: Tue Jul 20, 2010 5:26 pm
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Posted: Wed Jul 21, 2010 5:22 am
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Sadist Sagittarius doom1000 If that dosnt work, try to print out some of the Cruxshadows lyrics, and have your mother read them, without telling her that its a gothic band (dont mention the name either). As pretty much everyone in here know, they are christians and that is often reflected in their lyrics. A significant portion of their lyrics are about Egyptian mythology. Besides, they're not really a goth band.
[irony]oh please let me live in denial.... i beg you. I love it so much. dramallama [/irony]
Well, to be honest i dont really care what ever or not they are goth. But many people who consider them self goth listens to them. And many people who listens to them, consider them (the band) to be goth. Also, they have performed at WGT alot of times by now, and its a well known fact that they ARE christian. I was just thinking for some one who dosnt know sh*t about goth, theese guys would be good to convince her that goth is not satanic or a big cult.
You got any better ideas ?
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Posted: Wed Jul 21, 2010 10:55 am
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Posted: Thu Jul 22, 2010 5:11 pm
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Posted: Fri Jul 23, 2010 4:46 am
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Posted: Fri Jul 23, 2010 5:09 am
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Ok, so I did end up making the poster 2 days ago. Well, it's not really a poster; it's a piece of orange printer paper with colorful writing on it. The title is "5 Common Misconceptions About Goths and Why They Don't Apply to All of Them". I know it's long, but the ones I put up there seriously don't apply to all (probably not even most except maybe 1). I gave full explanations why they don't (stuff in the brackets isn't it) and used things she certainly knows (and others know) about me as an example. These are the 5 I chose to put on there: 1.They're devil worshipers (most aren't, I think) I'm a Christian. 2.They always wear black (that one's not a big deal, but Mom always says I wear it too much, so that one's for her) I've told her many times the main reason I wear black often is because I sweat excessively (so the pit rings won't be so obvious) 3.They're obsessed with death (hey, some may be) I'm quite happy to be alive 4.They're suicidal or violent ((some people out there unfortunately are suicidal (including 1 of my friends) or extremely violent) You don't see me trying to kill myself or seriously harm others 5.They're negative (pessimistic) (this one's for Mom too because she doesn't like to be around people who are always negative) I think of the good and the bad Mom finally noticed it this morning. I don't think she read the whole paper, but I did notice her mouthing the title as she read it. I'm not sure if it was because she had just awakened or because she has stopped believing the stereotypes and misconceptions, but it didn't seem to faze her that she saw the word "goths" written on something on my wall. Even if she had just woke up, that would wake her up as soon as it caught her eye. So I really think she's over them. But I am still considering the band idea.
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Posted: Mon Jul 26, 2010 3:27 pm
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Posted: Wed Jul 28, 2010 7:52 am
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Posted: Wed Jul 28, 2010 2:25 pm
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