I seem to have this problem... I fall in love often, I fall in love fast and sometimes I can't stop myself. I understand that even we liked each other it wouldn't last but whenever I become friends with I guy I feel like Im falling in love with him! Is it just a good friend feeling? I wasnt able to think of any other reasons that I liked them but when one of his friends (like best bud of the guy i like) said that he had a crush on me I literally turned redder then a tomato and I find myself thinking about him alot... But then comes my next problem... I cant stop thinking about any of the guys I think I like... In total there is 5... how do I figure which ones are just crushes?
Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 8:12 am
If there are 5, they are most likely all crushes. Big ones maybe, but crushes. If you truly like someone there wouldn't be anyone else.
I have so been there. Its just infatuation. An emotion easily mistaken for love. Ive made the mistake in pursuing an infatuation (thinking it was love) and am now in a terrible predicament where I realize it was infatuation, and I have two other crushes to deal with. They are just crushes (or infatuation) if you like multiple people at the same time for long periods of time.
*exhales* I never thought to post this problem, but I'm glad that I'm not the only one that acts like that.
Infactuation. Got it.
Posted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 8:01 pm
it's infatuation., i experience also that kind of situations and i think there nothing wrong to have many crushes., there just only crush but if you "love" those guys at the same time well it's another story
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