Making a Strong Move- How to Ask Someone Out

[Kaiyle Brightblade]

My math teacher gave this advice to the boys in our senior math class. I wanted to share it with everybody because I think a girl could also use this method.

When you ask someone out, you want to make a strong move. Call him on the phone and say something like, "Hey Jason, its Miranda. I was wondering if you would like to out to dinner on friday at Luigi's." Picking the time and place helps insure that the date will actually happen. If you were to say something like, "Maybe we could go out some time," then it ends up never happening.

If he sounds interested but it seems like he has a problem with the time or place you picked, then you can be flexible. Maybe he says, "I'd really like to but my aunt's visiting on friday". In that case you could suggest Saturday. But if he says no more than once, he's probably trying to turn you down politely. In that case, you should probably say, "maybe some other time," and hang up.

If he said no the first time, you can call again in a few weeks and ask him again. If he says no this time, you know for sure he's definetly not interested.

I have to admit, I haven't actually tried it. But it seems like very good advice, and I wish I had heard it sooner. Maybe it can help the girls who aren't sure how to tell a guy that they are interested. If anyone else has any advice about asking someone out, I'd love to hear it.  

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Lol, you have a weird math class. xD

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[.Vindicated.Of.Sanity.]

XD You have an awesome math class!! <3
Some of my classes are kind of like that... random teacher tangents. XP
This is very helpful. Thanks :3

 

[The_Brightest_Moon]

That's good advice but lol I'm way too shy to do it. the last time I actually asked a guy out he was pretty mean about it and I was completely humiliated. Oh the SHAAAME. so I'm pretty shy when it comes to asking guys out.  

[Kaiyle Brightblade]

Yeah, our math teacher is pretty cool. He said this during the last week of senior year, when we were done with all of our work and our teachers were giving us life advice. I wanted to share this because it would have helped me multiple times in high school to know this.  

[Kaiyle Brightblade]

The_Brightest_Moon

That's good advice but lol I'm way too shy to do it. the last time I actually asked a guy out he was pretty mean about it and I was completely humiliated. Oh the SHAAAME. so I'm pretty shy when it comes to asking guys out.

Oh no thats really awful. Theres no excuse for being so mean. I'm sorry sad  

[The_Brightest_Moon]

Kaiyle Brightblade

Yeah, our math teacher is pretty cool. He said this during the last week of senior year, when we were done with all of our work and our teachers were giving us life advice. I wanted to share this because it would have helped me multiple times in high school to know this.

Lucky. your teacher is cooooool.... I have a few teachers I'd love life advice from. you know they just seem like "the type" to know what they're talking about.