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I guess I was lucky, I was on the opposite side of your situation... Though that was because none of them agreed with what she had done, and because in the process of her leaving me, she also screwed 3 of our friends that we were going to move into a rental house together with.

Yeah... She kinda brought it on herself. *shrug* Though alot of them aren't as close as they used to be, because some of them are still friends with her, even though she never comes around anymore.

So why is it when he's the one who did the wrong all the friends go to him?!

It's also quite possible that he spun quite a tale against you. My wife tried the same thing, but the difference was that none of our friends believed her. Almost all of them knew she had cheated on me with multiple people, and didn't trust her one bit.

No worries, Charamath. I'm a bit similar, but I know why things go the way they do in my case.

I'm actually a very direct individual, and not all people enjoy my directness. The guys I date are usually people that other people like, they are friendly and sociable. So once we break up I never see or speak to those people again while the guys are still doing the same things with the same people.

I have my few dear friends and those people will be there for me no matter what (even if they live across an ocean & a continent). I really don't ask for anything more than that. I don't waste my time trying to befriend a bunch of semi-random people that I happen to cross paths with. It's hard to find true friends that you can really trust.