Maddy
Other than the Jadzia-Lenara kiss, is there any same gender anything in the series?
There is a bit of romance suggested between Dr. Crusher & Odan when he/she moves from a male body into a female body... Odan acts like it's normal for Beverly to still have feelings, but Beverly basically says that it's not okay/normal for us.
There's an episode in TNG with these people who have /no/ gender, but that's a whole different concept anyway...
I definitely think Garak was bi tho... he's just so... gay! My friend and I called him "Garak the Gay Cardassian" has a nice ring to it, don't you think?