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Ok so Im 19 and ive been going out with my boyfriend for almost two years..He graduated school well college a few months ago and it been all down hill since he graduated and moved.. We usto see eachother everyday almost and now im lucky if i get to see him twice a month.. He lives 4 hours away also which dosent help eather.. The problem is that he's been acting diff. i mean ill dress up he wont nodice he dosent give me love really anymore meaning kisses hugs whatever and it seems like hes more distant we usto have such a great relationship now its like were diffrent ppl.. Im always worring since he lives so far away he is cheeting on me with his female friends.. And its like he dosent even find me attractive anymore i usto be an gothic model for a few record co. and s**t but i quit modeling after 5 years cuz of the scene was changing and i didnt want to go with it. He loved when i modeled but now that i stoped it seems like i dono.. Ive been really depressed lately cuz of it and feel like im nothing to him anymore i wait for calls all the time from him and when i call him or he calls me it seems he has really nothing to say to me.. What am i doing wrong and what do you think i should do cuz its really tearing me up inside and i dono if i can take anymore its like im dyeing inside like im nothing anymore plz. Help thanks.

All im asking is advice not a cure for it ... stare

Sounds like he did what I did and hope to change, and just get lazy, take it for granted that your always going to be there.

She say's she's nineteen.

Personally, I think you should drop the guy. He seems like he wants to do things, but you seem to be holding him down..In a sense. Possibility. I dunno.

But he seems to be doing what my best friend's exboyfriend did.

It's not you. It's him. Simple as that.

And again, I'd say Drop the guy. -shrug-