ZenRyu of Light
hmm....I thought my relationship with my ex of four years was perfect. I thought she'd be the one I'd spend my life with. During the first year or two, things were great. We loved each other deeply, and I thought nothing could ruin it. But...I soon noticed all these little signs, but I chosed to ignore them. Then about two year ago, I was forced to move away, so we tried having a long distance relationship. The signs bugged me more and more, because I soon noticed them in all the emails and calls she made to me. She was different. Then March of this year, she broke up with me. I was miserable for 6 months, and I swore never to love again. Not too long ago, her older sister confessed that my ex had been cheating on me behind my back.
I ended up falling in love again with someone else. And Im very happy now. Happier than I have ever been. She's a really great person, and she and I seem to have been meant for each other.
I guess what Im trying to say is, no matter how much you try to avoid love, it will always find you, and in the wierdest ways too. You can't always predict love, so don't try to find it. Then again, don't abuse it either. If you do, it'll only seem like a game to you, and you'll lose the satisfactory of loving or being loved by someone. And long distance relationships only work out when both sides are trying to make it work. They must be willed enough to dedicate so much to it. But in the event that love doesn't work out for you, just move on and dont worry. Love will come again.
I ended up falling in love again with someone else. And Im very happy now. Happier than I have ever been. She's a really great person, and she and I seem to have been meant for each other.
I guess what Im trying to say is, no matter how much you try to avoid love, it will always find you, and in the wierdest ways too. You can't always predict love, so don't try to find it. Then again, don't abuse it either. If you do, it'll only seem like a game to you, and you'll lose the satisfactory of loving or being loved by someone. And long distance relationships only work out when both sides are trying to make it work. They must be willed enough to dedicate so much to it. But in the event that love doesn't work out for you, just move on and dont worry. Love will come again.
I've been in a similar situation, man. Love hurts sometimes, but it can also be amazing!
I agree that you shouldn't go looking for love; love finds you when it's meant to find you. Too many people go looking for love, and end up convincing themselves they're in love because they want to believe that they are. That's not how it works. And yes, long-distance relationships can work. I've had experience with them, and I have faith that they can work. They just take a little more work than regular relationships. Some people don't like them because they like going on dates and having physical intimacy, but all I need is love. I know it sounds cheesy, but it's true. If I'm in love and I'm loved in return, and I feel so incredibly happy when I think about him and imagine being in his arms, that's all I really need. although I do hope I can see him this Christmas. I would do anything to see him and hold him again soon . . .
I love my Jesse heart