OMG! Its a thread about...Sex *GASP!*

[Angel of the End]

Todd186

Rellik San

Todd186

"Television Censorship
I am a large promoter of freedom of speech and artistic freedom. HOWEVER. I believe sexual content should be censored. Not on porn channels, mind you, as those are PayPerView 99% of the time anyways.
Nudity is okay. Nude people are fine. However, whenever anything involves sex it is ALWAYS hardly realistic. So I would say "sex only if it's realistic, and shows consequences", but that isn't about to happen."

Yes I agree completely. It's just a naked body, I don't know what the big deal is. It's the same for everyone.

No one wants to see realistic sex... ever. 15 minutes of a guy pumping away, fumbling around, the getting sweaty, the girl needing to pee in the middle of itm, the panting, the girl looking disinterested, getting cramp, the finnish, blue balls, the panting, no cuddling, throwing the covers off and deciding you need a cold shower because of how hot and sticky you are...... consequences involve changing the bed sheets because they are sweaty and sticky and not fun to sleep in.

Those are the consequences of sex.

I know, I was only reffering to the nudity. I don't think there should be realistic sex, and the way they have it now is fine. But the whole covering up the body thing, I think it's rediculous. It's just a naked body. It's natural. So I don't know why people say it's such a bad thing.

However, where exactly does perversion begin? Some people, like with drugs or drinking, can become addicted. Studies on the male brain show this can be very unhealthy, and infact, some killers actually started out by becoming mentally unstable by being too obsessed with porn (BTK as an example, and many killers who stalk, rape, and kill women). Also, naked bodies, to young children who do not understand, can bring about one grabbing another and other obscene and rather sad and embarassing things in public, which will lead to the questioning of the parents. Look at how many rape victims there are, illegi. children, single parents. If you put an image of a naked body infront of someone, you are basically saying to them, "let your imagination do the rest". Not only that, I doubt there are many really good decent parents who are addicted to porn or allow their children to be exposed to adult nudity at certain ages.  

[Angel of the End]

lurichan

TheVampireLirel

Actually, I think society is more open towards sex this century than the last.
I mean, just the other day some girls who sit behind me in class where having a very open discussion on it.

I think you are right, our society now is much more talkative about it then back even say 100 years ago. Around the time of the victorian era it was exceedly taboo to talk about to the point of being rediculous. I mean seeing ankle was considered sexual, and they put those little frills on the furniture because they didn't want men to see leg in any form and get ideas. -_-*

It's a good thing that people talk about sex in a heathy way now instead of having people surpress their every urge to the point of lunacy. Most of the reason sex became such a hush hush subject is because of the christian view on sex as something to be done only in marriage and only as a form of procreation. -_-* Thankfully woman's liberation and the advent of the birth control pill and condom have made great strides in changing things. Some christian purists still have skewed views on sex, but overall society has become much less closed minded about the topic.

Keep in mind, there are plently of good reasons for this point of view. Also, it is not just about having kids, but as a way of showing love and surrendering to your parter. Husbands are ordered in the Bible to submit to their wives, and wives to their husbands. Sex is the most intimate really that people can get, one body being connected to another, and two people being so close in a way that maybe only the other will ever get to see. It is ment to form strong families and relationships between the father and mother. Also, it does, in a way, encourage the two married people stay together to take care of a house hold, take care of each other, and to take care of and raise their children.  

[-Resurrected Writer-]

Angel of the End

lurichan

TheVampireLirel

Actually, I think society is more open towards sex this century than the last.
I mean, just the other day some girls who sit behind me in class where having a very open discussion on it.

I think you are right, our society now is much more talkative about it then back even say 100 years ago. Around the time of the victorian era it was exceedly taboo to talk about to the point of being rediculous. I mean seeing ankle was considered sexual, and they put those little frills on the furniture because they didn't want men to see leg in any form and get ideas. -_-*

It's a good thing that people talk about sex in a heathy way now instead of having people surpress their every urge to the point of lunacy. Most of the reason sex became such a hush hush subject is because of the christian view on sex as something to be done only in marriage and only as a form of procreation. -_-* Thankfully woman's liberation and the advent of the birth control pill and condom have made great strides in changing things. Some christian purists still have skewed views on sex, but overall society has become much less closed minded about the topic.

Keep in mind, there are plently of good reasons for this point of view. Also, it is not just about having kids, but as a way of showing love and surrendering to your parter. Husbands are ordered in the Bible to submit to their wives, and wives to their husbands. Sex is the most intimate really that people can get, one body being connected to another, and two people being so close in a way that maybe only the other will ever get to see. It is ment to form strong families and relationships between the father and mother. Also, it does, in a way, encourage the two married people stay together to take care of a house hold, take care of each other, and to take care of and raise their children.

Outside of opening their skin and crawling inside, it's the closest physical intimacy that people can acheive. Emotional intimacy goes beyond sex, and is why people are oftentimes closer to their family and close friends than they are to their significant others.

While sex between people in love greatly reduces the problems that sex can harbor, love is not a requirement for sex.  

[Angel of the End]

-Resurrected Writer-

Angel of the End

lurichan

TheVampireLirel

Actually, I think society is more open towards sex this century than the last.
I mean, just the other day some girls who sit behind me in class where having a very open discussion on it.

I think you are right, our society now is much more talkative about it then back even say 100 years ago. Around the time of the victorian era it was exceedly taboo to talk about to the point of being rediculous. I mean seeing ankle was considered sexual, and they put those little frills on the furniture because they didn't want men to see leg in any form and get ideas. -_-*

It's a good thing that people talk about sex in a heathy way now instead of having people surpress their every urge to the point of lunacy. Most of the reason sex became such a hush hush subject is because of the christian view on sex as something to be done only in marriage and only as a form of procreation. -_-* Thankfully woman's liberation and the advent of the birth control pill and condom have made great strides in changing things. Some christian purists still have skewed views on sex, but overall society has become much less closed minded about the topic.

Keep in mind, there are plently of good reasons for this point of view. Also, it is not just about having kids, but as a way of showing love and surrendering to your parter. Husbands are ordered in the Bible to submit to their wives, and wives to their husbands. Sex is the most intimate really that people can get, one body being connected to another, and two people being so close in a way that maybe only the other will ever get to see. It is ment to form strong families and relationships between the father and mother. Also, it does, in a way, encourage the two married people stay together to take care of a house hold, take care of each other, and to take care of and raise their children.

Outside of opening their skin and crawling inside, it's the closest physical intimacy that people can acheive. Emotional intimacy goes beyond sex, and is why people are oftentimes closer to their family and close friends than they are to their significant others.

While sex between people in love greatly reduces the problems that sex can harbor, love is not a requirement for sex.

I completely agree. But you can see how it helps alot of couples stay closely bonded emotionally, and how it can also make one appreciate the other a bit more, and how this could be more special especially if each person had not had sexual experiences with other people before. It's a hassel, but for some people, it is really worth it. Also, if someone has not had experiences with other people of that sort, or more like ALOT of those kinds of experiences, chances are that the spouse doesn't really want to hear about it or be compared to other sexual partners. (and again, thank you so much for pointing that out, it's obvious, but for some it is easy to forget ^^; )  

[SADERR]

angrygothdude

i think the way alot of us were brought up...that sex was bad and dangerous...personnaly im open about it...im like this...you ask ill answer...in junior high i was asked if i masterbate...i said yes...everyone laughed at me...and i told them...whats so funny...you guys do it to...and then they got mad and left...and they have to censor tv...because some parents use tv as a day care tool...so they neglect their kid...so they want their kid to be...safe...when they neglect em...i say...we need better parents...and no censorship...and a friend of mine...use to say...if they stopped censoring thing they would start to show hard core porn...which is bull they make to much money off the tv...they wouldnt do it...(some one would...but not enough of them to care about)....i mean hell when you they censored bugs bunny...i had enough...

Okay..I think all those periods annoyed me MORE then 733T SP34K. Seriously.  

[Maggoty Anne]

I don't know if I'm asexual, or just depressed. Sex is the last thing on my mind.  

[MortSanglant]

tl;dr on the entire thread.

But what I can say are these points.

- No, sex is not dirty.

- Yes, sex is beautiful.

- No, children should not be introduced to it at an early age.

- Sex is seen as something to be handled with care because it's an activity that can lead to great consequences:
a. a child - which is usually something unwanted in the case of teen pregnancy; and is something far too great for ones so young to bear.
b. STDs - many of which have little to no symptoms; or are untreatable; or are fatal; and are just downright embarrassing.

- I also saw someone bashing the whole abstinence thing saying that they would like to know what they're getting into when they marry a person. No, I have not waited for marriage, but there is a great beauty to doing so. In an ideal world we would all wait, some of you might disagree, but I haven't said what's so beautiful about waiting. A man and a woman, both virgins, get married. They've never been with anyone else, so they have no one to compare their mate to. They may both be terrible, but they get to learn together and grow together and become better together. The fact that I'm going to miss out on that journey with whoever I marry makes me wish I had waited. Alas.  

[Rellik San]

MortSanglant

- Yes, sex is beautiful.

Emotionally yes... physically, its actually quite a revolting act when you think about it, all the swapping of internal fluids, grunting, sweating, blood.... there is a reason its called 'bumping uglies'.  

[MortSanglant]

Rellik San

MortSanglant

- Yes, sex is beautiful.

Emotionally yes... physically, its actually quite a revolting act when you think about it, all the swapping of internal fluids, grunting, sweating, blood.... there is a reason its called 'bumping uglies'.

Lol. It's only called that if you and your partner have ugly genitals. I happen to have a beautiful v****a. I would know. I've seen some pretty nasty ones. =[
Omg just thinking about them makes me want to die. Hanging meat curtains and third lips. Dear Yevon.
Anyway, I love the notion of swapping fluids. Sounds juicy and delicious. ;3  

[Whisper Gently]

MortSanglant

Rellik San

MortSanglant

- Yes, sex is beautiful.

Emotionally yes... physically, its actually quite a revolting act when you think about it, all the swapping of internal fluids, grunting, sweating, blood.... there is a reason its called 'bumping uglies'.

Lol. It's only called that if you and your partner have ugly genitals. I happen to have a beautiful v****a. I would know. I've seen some pretty nasty ones. =[
Omg just thinking about them makes me want to die. Hanging meat curtains and third lips. Dear Yevon.
Anyway, I love the notion of swapping fluids. Sounds juicy and delicious. ;3

rofl
I think I have a pretty v****a too.
Yea. Sex

 

[Angel of the End]

Speeking of sexual attraction, why is it when you are not attracted to anyone, everyone assumes you are gay? (This was an issue for me in middle school, and no is an issue for my freshy friend... she is not attracted to anyone, so everyone, in turn, thinks she is a lesbian, and they are very rude and crude about it, and about other things... which they have no right to be so mean about.)  

[MortSanglant]

Because the "norm" for a teenager is to:

A. be a raging sack of hormones
B. be straight
C. be after anything with a c**k/c**t [pending your "straight" orientation]

And when you aren't all three - the automatic assumption of the masses is the opposite:

YOU MUST BE A GAY!

And we ALL know gays don't have hormones OR sexual attraction abilities.  

[BlutWolfV_V]

Secretive topic?: NO. Not discussing sex may just make a person want to do it more. My mom is open about it. She doesn't want me to have sex when I'm still a teenager, but if I ever want to, tell her so she can tell me what to do.
Age: I think sex should be introduced at whatever reasonable age the parents think is appropriate. By reasonable I mean no younger than about 9. But they shouldn't wait until the kid is 15, either. That's waaay too late. If they're mature enough, they should understand the process and possible outcomes.
Teenage sex: If they're 17 or older, then I guess it's okay as long. But 16 and younger, hecks no! I know two girls at school (I think 15 and 16) who are sexually active on a somewhat regular basis. And then one of my friends told me about this girl she knew (it may have been her friend) who first had sex when she was 12. When she was found out, dudes started asking her if she would have sex with them (she did most of the time, I think). Even the teachers were asking! gonk Okay dude, now that's just wrong.  

[Teriyaki Tsubaki]

I think that the main reason sex is so bad is because it was portrayed as dirty and society has carried that throughout the years.
Sex is used as something dirty and so is dirty. People throw themselves around haphazardly and ruin themselves.
Sex is really something pure an only for a couple to share together. You shouldn't have to "practice" for the future (someone actually told me that).  

[BlutWolfV_V]

Teriyaki Tsubaki

I think that the main reason sex is so bad is because it was portrayed as dirty and society has carried that throughout the years.
Sex is used as something dirty and so is dirty. People throw themselves around haphazardly and ruin themselves.
Sex is really something pure an only for a couple to share together. You shouldn't have to "practice" for the future (someone actually told me that).

I'm with you on that one, dude.