That's right, this is the b***h FIT thread!

[Skaia Beltane]

Okay, today... I visited my grandparents today. I don't really get along with my grandmother, but I visit them like once a year out of responsibility.

We just just chatted and everything went fine until she asked who I voted for in the president elections. We had them recently. At the second round there was a competition between two candidates and one of them is gay. He didn't win but anyways, I told her I voted for him. I don't think him being gay is that a big deal, I like his politics and ideas.

And the seventh hell broke loose. It seems that because I think gay people are just people, like everybody else, it makes me a lesbian and therefore sick and abnormal. I told her that I respect her opinions and I don't want to hurt her feelings, but she has to also respect that I have my own opinions too. But noooooo... She's probably wiping me from the family tree in her mind right now. She even started crying, because I'm such a horrible person.

Teaches me that there is no such thing as unconditional love.  

[Starzel]

Why can't I arrange my game items?!?!
I want all my alchemy items in the same place goddammit!  

[hoekoyami]

Prince Ichi

almostmuse

I really ******** hate Sherlock, mainly thanks to my obsessive friend. Like DAMN LADY, STFUUUUUUUU ALREADY. I wouldn't care about it so much if it weren't shoved down my throat like it is. I can't stand it, and I can't stand HER and her pseudo-British ******** thing goin' on.

OH MY GOOOOOOOOD HOW DO I MAKE HER STOP. *sobs.*

I can't post it on tumblr because I don't want to be swamped with angry angry fangirls telling me that I have no taste and blahblah my anime is s**t blahblah Sherlock is God blahblah I just have no appreciation for logic... Just let me sit in my corner, please and thank you.

/end petty sobrant.

do we know the same people

like

seriously jesus ******** christ a girl back home is the same way WITH EVERYTHING SHE HAS EVER GOTTEN INTO and the makes kind of....really terrible cosplays and acts in character all the time??? Her most recent thing is Sherlock and Doctor Who.....two things I really kind of liked before I realized there were tumblr fandoms.

like there's a point where it's borderline insane, and she runs with it full force.

Unless you're from rural WV, probably not. And this girl doesn't cosplay... Yet. And yeah. Fandoms are scary, but usually I tolerate it... Just something about Sherlock pisses me off, and having someone so close to me obsessed with it just pisses me oooooooff. I don't mind Doctor Who so much, and I don't even mind tumblr fandoms (I like Homestuck, which I think is considered the scourge of the earth by some/many/idk; however people that obsess very much over any fandom just frustrate me), just... that fandom idek. They don't even have an official hatedom yet. Like you would THINK which such a LARGE, OBSESSED fanbase, there would be a nice little place where I could congregate and rant with others about my Sherlock hate. But no. There isn't. D:

I don't know. I really don't. Martin Freeman and Benedict Cumberbatch are also going to both be in The Hobbit, apparently... I'm terrified what will happen to the LotR/Hobbit/Tolkien fandom... I'm just getting into it... I don't want Sherlock fangirls infecting it with their jkdgkjhgkhgdkhgdkhldsf D:<

I don't even care how petty it is. I just want it to go awaaaaaaaaaay.  

[hoekoyami]

Chixen

almostmuse

I don't know. I really don't. Martin Freeman and Benedict Cumberbatch are also going to both be in The Hobbit, apparently... I'm terrified what will happen to the LotR/Hobbit/Tolkien fandom... I'm just getting into it... I don't want Sherlock fangirls infecting it with their jkdgkjhgkhgdkhgdkhldsf D:<

I don't even care how petty it is. I just want it to go awaaaaaaaaaay

There's going to be even more illogical Bilbo/Smaug porn out there when the movie hits I imagine.

D: Why can't I tip posts in Guilds!? Because I need that button for this post.

... I like crackships, so I can't say much (aside from that dragon/hobbit doesn't really work for me)... But still... *sigh.* I guess no matter where you go, fangirl-logic fueled porn abounds.  

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Slick Southpaw

I try to never say anything about marriage unless someone is already lamenting single-status, then it's up-for-grabs, but I always keep it gender neutral... I was in the military for six years, had a lot of closet-but-not-quite friends that couldn't openly talk about it, so I keep it phrased openly.

plus, I think it's a little high-handed to assume everyone is looking to get married/wants to be married/will only be complete once married. I've been married twice, and I don't think it's a state worth aiming for rofl  

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Slick Southpaw

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Slick Southpaw

I try to never say anything about marriage unless someone is already lamenting single-status, then it's up-for-grabs, but I always keep it gender neutral... I was in the military for six years, had a lot of closet-but-not-quite friends that couldn't openly talk about it, so I keep it phrased openly.

plus, I think it's a little high-handed to assume everyone is looking to get married/wants to be married/will only be complete once married. I've been married twice, and I don't think it's a state worth aiming for rofl

:>
It doesn't help that I'm in a super christian college where at my age not being attached to a man [as a chick] is considered far outside the norm. It's nothing against the faith; that's just how it happens, cultural thing I suppose. Most of my catholic friends I know from catholic high school are married and/or have kids, are dating someone and planning it, yaddayaddayadda

My mom is lookin at me, in denial about how she's nearly sixty and still had no grandchildren while her friends that are younger than her have grandkids. I do agree that it does feel a bit high handed that some assume that getting married is the pinnacle of life or whatever. Maybe for some, but aside from the frustrating "you'll understand when you get married" bits I hear, I just don't really see that. Maybe if I had a girlfriend or boyfriend that wasn't abusive towards me, I'd have a different outlook. I don't know. I'm far too busy with life to care atm.

oh I see what you mean.. my Mormon friend is in that kind of pinch - 25 and unmarried, OOOOOHmygawd. Everyone in his church is desperate to hook him up, he's almost like a mythical beastie wandering around. But he feels the pressure for sure, and it sucks cuz we live in a town with a teeny tiny dating pool.

I'm in the same boat as you, though... too busy to really care, or maybe I'm just too reclusive to think seriously about having someone all up in business XD I'm in the middle stage of moving back to Texas and finding a job or signing up for school and packing up all this s**t I have, romance takes the backseat to that, unless they wanna help me move and look really good while doing it.

the most romantic I get about it these days is "well, it'd be nice to have someone to split the bills with... and maybe drive me around town cuz I hate driving... and eat all the veggies from my hamburger when I pick them off."  

[Sodafop]

WELL, I have a long list to b***h about.

First off, I live under college students. Loud ones. Assholes, really. emotion_donotwant Every single night, we have them stomping around drunkenly, talking like a baby to their obnoxious excuse for a dog, laying their ghettoo booty music, yelling, and drinking. Now, I have told them I'm gonna call the cops, and they don't stop. My rents won't do anything about it because they think it's some kind of 'normal' apartment living. Isn't there supposed to be some kind of sound curfew???? cat_scream

Secondly, my ex ended the last relationship I was in. I wasn't with HIM, but the guy I was with was, and is still very important to me. I guess my ex, who's a stupid, evil b*****d, and likes to make everyone around him suffer, got in said guy's face and told him intimate details of when I was dating HIM, down to the last, gritty detail.. So I'm gonna slap the troll out of him when I see him around town. It's not MY fault he's dating a c**-guzzling gutterslut that enjoys incest by proxy. emotion_donotwant SERIOUSLY.


Wow, I feel better. emotion_yatta  

[Flz]

I guess I'll b***h for a bit.

I posted something on facebook, a happy little status and all. Just saying smile, you're alive. Then a friend posts something depressing about it -____-

Seriously? Seriously? You're alive. You're not dead. You don't have a disease. You have a roof over your head and food in your belly. Just be happy about it!! I'm sick of everyone being despaired all the ******** time. You could be in much much worse situations. Very worse. Just be happy you're alive and you have a roof over you're god damn head and people that give a flying ******** about you. For peter sakes!!

If you're not happy, get off facebook, stop making depressing status and go make yourself happy!! Don't kept making sappy status and complaining to everyone you see and their mother -.-

Just, be happy and stuff. It's not that hard.

Glad I got that off my chest.  

[floraIwitch]

/idly complains about my lack of a life atm

i'm so..

idk anymore. emotion_donotwant  

[Teatreat]

Rya Dracosin

I said mean things to someone I care about and they did the proper actions of telling me off and blocking me. I didn't mean any of it. He broke up with me and it hurt so bad. Still hurts. Im miserable and I can't make myself happier.

Yeah that's pretty much the worst. I did that once to a good friend of mine because she betrayed my trust. For a long time I tried to get her friendship back... but alas that bridge has been thoroughly burned.

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Right now I just wish everything didn't go down the crapper all at once. If it can go wrong at the moment it will. Of course it has to do that the week before final exams. To make matters worse I have a lot of anxiety in general so when people crank up the stress it makes it very difficult for me to function.