OMG! Its a thread about...Sex *GASP!*

[dante_reincarnation15]

exactly but i only think u should have sex with the person u think is right now some one night stand s**t i honostly hate people that do that weman are human beings not tools but thats in my opinion biggrin  

[Spooky Wasabi Princess]

I2aeth

spooky_sez

My parents were open and honest about sex with me when I was a kid. If I had a question about it, it got answered.

That's all parents have to do.

Agreed.

My parents told me anything I asked honestly and openly. They also told me: "don't do drugs, don't drink outside of the house, and God forbid, if you get pregnant before you graduate from college you're gonna wish you never found out about sex to begin with."

I think it's a very valid threat. 3nodding

Haha, well threats aside, good on your parents, I say!  

[Hunter of the Dammed]

dante_reincarnation15

exactly but i only think u should have sex with the person u think is right now some one night stand s**t i honostly hate people that do that weman are human beings not tools but thats in my opinion biggrin

*stands up and applauds.* Im not the only one!  

[Spike23080]

I think sex has lost its meaning to many ppl. It should be about love at its peak and some plesure. Sex should be about romance and love, not on the kitchen table or in your car. With sex you should always use protection, and even with all kinds of protection you should be ready to take responsibility if a baby ends up on its way. For the guys, if you were man enuff to have sex then you should be man enuff to take care of the women and the child.  

[SADERR]

I agree and disagree.Here:
Secretive topic
Sex should not be a secretive topic. We are on this earth to have sex. The age old question "why are we here?" israther simple. To create offspring. To mate. To partake in the act of sex. To ********.
Hiding it just makes kids more attracted to it. It is horrible that I can say something to a child in grade one, and he thinks I mean something sexual. It is horrible that children in lines are holding up pencils pretending they are penises. this is NOT right, because it is something natural and should be taken as such.

Age
Children learn it on their own. I did,as did many others. Parents should let their children learn all these crazy rumors from classmates. At about 12, they should confront the child and sort all of it out. This way the child is not informed young, but information is released slowly. It may be bullshit half the time, but the core concept is there.

Television Censorship
I am a large promoter of freedom of speech and artistic freedom. HOWEVER. I believe sexual content should be censored. Not on porn channels, mind you, as those are PayPerView 99% of the time anyways.
Nudity is okay. Nude people are fine. However, whenever anything involves sex it is ALWAYS hardly realistic. So I would say "sex only if it's realistic, and shows consequences", but that isn't about to happen.

One Night Stands
I differ with almost EVERYONE here. I believe humans have needs and wants that masturbation cannot always fufill. Aslong as it is legal, consentual, and not discriminatory in any way, I think it is perfectly fine.
Should people only have sex with those who are perfect for them? Yes, but we don't live in lollipop land, where we all have that perfect someone. It will not be as satisfying as it would be with a partner who you love, so there's the dividing line right there.
As long as the woman (or man, for the sake of equality in viewpoints) is being treated with respect, and wants it as much as the other person, i see nothing wrong with it. Go at it.

Teenage Sex
I am disgusted at children having sex at 11 and 12. I think that once you hit highschool, you go through a social change. You develop emotionally. Once that happens, you are okay for it. Chances are you're emotionally ready. Even still it should be a careful thing, not getting laid on the bed of your second cousins best friend's sisters room at a party where everyone is drunk.

Willing Teenage Mothers
Wooow..Where to start with this one..
I do not agree with this. 17/18/19? Sure. But 11-16 KIDS wanting to have a BABY? That's screwed up. That's all I have to say about that. It just sn't right. These children need to grow up, and they need to be taught better.

School Teachings
I believe in school teachings. I believe in showing kids how to use condoms. In my province it is done in grade 8. I believe anywhere from grades 6-8 is acceptable. Kids are going to do it, they need to learn.
Should parents tech their kids? Yes. As soon as a child asks anything, they should get an answer. But a child will not go up to their parents and say "How do I put on a condom?". I know I wouldn't. Me and my mom are open, but I'd just be wierded out. I'd come to the internet first. Where we are all anonymous as we wish to be.

Thats about it. there you have it, Jon's pointless views on sex. Next topic.  

[Todd186]

"even though really the parents should take it upon themselves to teach their children about sex and not leave it to the public school systems to educate them about reporduction"

I agree, because the school system cannot cover every single thing. The school system is not allowed to cover everything. And sometimes it is a lot easier if kids hear it from their parents and sometimes it's not. So yes, I do agree that the parents should take it upon themselves to teach their children about sex.  

[Rellik San]

I had sex once... I think....


Maybe... or did I.... I don't know....

I can't remember.... if you don't have it in a long time are you avirgin again?  

[loveAkiochan]

I dont see anything wrong with sex.
My parents are pushing the whole "wait till your married thing" but i think that if you knwo what your doing and your with someoen you care about, or at least know somewhat, then its okay. MY mom gives me anythign she thinks i should know about sex from STDs and contrception, so I know a good deal about sex and what comes with it. I still wish my mother wasnt so over-protective of me. xd (plus i was one when my parents got married sooo the whole wait till your married thing's a bust!)  

[Todd186]

Abstinence If that's how you spell it.
I think the whole thing is bull crap. First of all, I know it makes sure you don't get any STD's, but I'd at least like to know what I'm getting into when I marry someone.
So I think kids shouldn't have sex until they're ready. And if they do, they should use protection. No garuntee but there's always a backup pill. And I think this should be used as a last resort, but Abortion. I don't think it's wrong. And you're not killing a baby. A fetus isn't technically a baby. I think it's the right of the mother. And if she want's to do it, let her. But if she gets pregnant on purpose and aborts every time, then no she shouldn't be allowed.
However, I do not approve of late abortion. If it has a chance to live, let it.  

[Todd186]

"Television Censorship
I am a large promoter of freedom of speech and artistic freedom. HOWEVER. I believe sexual content should be censored. Not on porn channels, mind you, as those are PayPerView 99% of the time anyways.
Nudity is okay. Nude people are fine. However, whenever anything involves sex it is ALWAYS hardly realistic. So I would say "sex only if it's realistic, and shows consequences", but that isn't about to happen."

Yes I agree completely. It's just a naked body, I don't know what the big deal is. It's the same for everyone.



 

[Rellik San]

Todd186

"Television Censorship
I am a large promoter of freedom of speech and artistic freedom. HOWEVER. I believe sexual content should be censored. Not on porn channels, mind you, as those are PayPerView 99% of the time anyways.
Nudity is okay. Nude people are fine. However, whenever anything involves sex it is ALWAYS hardly realistic. So I would say "sex only if it's realistic, and shows consequences", but that isn't about to happen."

Yes I agree completely. It's just a naked body, I don't know what the big deal is. It's the same for everyone.

No one wants to see realistic sex... ever. 15 minutes of a guy pumping away, fumbling around, the getting sweaty, the girl needing to pee in the middle of itm, the panting, the girl looking disinterested, getting cramp, the finnish, blue balls, the panting, no cuddling, throwing the covers off and deciding you need a cold shower because of how hot and sticky you are...... consequences involve changing the bed sheets because they are sweaty and sticky and not fun to sleep in.

Those are the consequences of sex.  

[Todd186]

Rellik San

Todd186

"Television Censorship
I am a large promoter of freedom of speech and artistic freedom. HOWEVER. I believe sexual content should be censored. Not on porn channels, mind you, as those are PayPerView 99% of the time anyways.
Nudity is okay. Nude people are fine. However, whenever anything involves sex it is ALWAYS hardly realistic. So I would say "sex only if it's realistic, and shows consequences", but that isn't about to happen."

Yes I agree completely. It's just a naked body, I don't know what the big deal is. It's the same for everyone.

No one wants to see realistic sex... ever. 15 minutes of a guy pumping away, fumbling around, the getting sweaty, the girl needing to pee in the middle of itm, the panting, the girl looking disinterested, getting cramp, the finnish, blue balls, the panting, no cuddling, throwing the covers off and deciding you need a cold shower because of how hot and sticky you are...... consequences involve changing the bed sheets because they are sweaty and sticky and not fun to sleep in.

Those are the consequences of sex.

I know, I was only reffering to the nudity. I don't think there should be realistic sex, and the way they have it now is fine. But the whole covering up the body thing, I think it's rediculous. It's just a naked body. It's natural. So I don't know why people say it's such a bad thing.  

[Rellik San]

Not as natural as you'd think I've dated plenty of girls who are so nuerotic about their bodies they refused to have sex over the covers.  

[Angel of the End]

Tenebrion Valefor

Well you brought up some good points but i disagree. You see i was brought up the 'normal' way. I know that theres nothing wrong with it and that people shouldn't be ashamed or anything yet whenever i think or talk about it , it seems 'wrong'. And this is probably going to cause problems for me in the future as well. The reason i think it shouldn't be talked about quietly and such is to prevent problems like this. I do think that it should be introduced at a younger age because in my opinion the sooner you learn of something the easier it is to accept. I do agree on not rushing things as well but that is something that would happen anyways. Regardless of whether or not your supposed to.

You know.... the reason there are things that we are "not suppose to do" are because of bad results. Like pregnancy, stds, broken hearts, embarassment (I highly doubt you wouldn't care if your grandmother walked in on you having sex with someone). Also, you are showing yourself to another person without any disguise, and people are know for taking this kind of information and using it against one another. In addition, it is considered by many to be a special and spiritual thing, and being willing to do anyone anywhere just based on looks and your own hormones shows a less than animalisitc level of thinking.