Peggysan
Terribly sorry, but I'm afraid that as long as you are different in anyway from a few person's beliefs, they're gonna trash it and you. I know what it's like to be surrounded by people who hate what you love, and as far as I can tell, trashing (as you put it) is just an immature way to express how you feel about it. Loving anything doesn't make you a loser, but using it to escape reality does. I'm surprised that there are enough non-anime fans on Gaia to trash anime, but I guess I've been spoilt by guilds. What I'm saying is, just ignore the ignorant. Don't care about what they think.
I really agree with you on this one... heck, it is just like any other misunderstanding about any other thing.... Some people hate and malign others because they think they are weird. The same goes for any other things that people might not understand or be able to relate to. And yes, it is a highly immature way of thinking. The only good and permanent solution to this would be respect. For example, some people like yaoi animes. I absolutely not. But then again, I don't go and trash those who like it. I have my own likes, they have theirs, everybody is happy. I just wish that society took that to heart. Too bad it seldom does...