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 Posted: Fri Jun 15, 2012 10:45 am
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Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2012 12:08 am
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Turn-ons:
~Blue or green eyes.
~Funny.
~Good with kids.
~Loves dogs. Must. Love. Dogs.
~Taller than me.
~Ambitious.
~Nice smile.
~Was in a fraternity in college. Hardly a requirement, but I was in a sorority and have always wanted to date a "brother."
~Spiritual. Same faith as me is a huuuge plus.
~Honest.
~Military. There's just something about a man in uniform...
~Can play an instrument, bonus points if guitar is one of them.
~Geeky/Nerdy. But not to the extreme or the point of being repulsive.
~Older than me, but not...old.
~On certain guys, glasses. Some guys are really cute with glasses, I'm finding.
~Trustworthy.
~Smart.
~Loves video games.
Turn-offs:
~Overweight or obese. I'm just not attracted to the "teddy bears."
~Lots of body hair. Reasonable amounts are okay, but I'm not a fan of hairy chests or backs.
~Too controlling.
~Illiterate online or in texts. Not a huge fan of chatspeak, u=you, or the lack of punctuation or capitalization.
~Hates animals or children. Loving both is a huge requirement.
~Doesn't have a car or doesn't like to drive. I prefer being a passenger and I like when a guy loves his car.
~Shorter than me.
~Vegetarian or vegan. I'm pretty much the complete opposite, it would be a huge disaster.
~Hippie. I went to college in a "4/20 capital," so I can judge.
~Doesn't shower. Gross.
~Facial hair. Some stubble is okay on some guys, but I hate beards and mustaches.
~Heavy smoker.
~Lots of tattoos or big tattoos. I would prefer none or maybe one.
~Lots of piercings.
~Too clingy. I'm more introverted, so I like my privacy sometimes.
~Long hair. If it's long enough for him to make a ponytail, it's too long.
~Unemployed. He can be working at McDonald's for all I care, as long as he's at least making money at this stage of life.
~Foot fetish. I hate feet, I don't want him doing anything to mine.
~Cheap/frugal.
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Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2012 8:17 am
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Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2012 9:11 am
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Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2012 10:08 am
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Posted: Sat Jun 23, 2012 7:49 pm
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heart Turn Ons heart Has dark hair, skinny(like not too skinny), for some reason has glasses, a cute smile, a soothing voice, smaarrrtt, dark eyes, kkind, loving, can treat a girl right!, isnt afraid to show PDA(Public Display of Affection), is tan (not oarnge or pale..just naturally tan), can talk openly with me, funny/a good sense of humor, is sweet, can make me smile biggrin
gonk Turn Offs gonk If hes fat (a lil chubby wld be ok, but i prefer him skinny), is tooo short, is younger then me, acts different around me around his friends, wont admit he loves me, is embaressed sayinf he loves me or being around me, wont spend time with me, flirts with other girls (its k if he has friends tht r girls tho), starts drama, wont work, wont help with anything
Thankfully my boyfriend has everything on the Turn Ons list 3nodding he be amazin emotion_yatta
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Posted: Tue Jul 10, 2012 6:25 pm
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Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2012 2:31 pm
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Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2012 3:02 pm
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Prepare for the longest list in the thread. <3
Oh, and the asterisks are must-haves/must-not-haves.
Turn-ons
Tall. I'm 5'8" so I need someone who doesn't stand on their tip-toes to kiss me.
Tough. Like, Red Foreman tough. Protective of me. Balls of steel. Ohhh yeah.
*Spontaneous.
*Honest.
*Hygenic. I'm germaphobic, so if a guy has dirty hands and touches me, I will scrub my skin off.
Neat. I don't care if he's a neat-freak or not, but slobs set off my germaphobia and OCD.
*Good-humor. I love people that laugh. I get nervous in conversations, and laughter makes me comfortable.
*Smart.
*Musical taste/musician. I can NOT stress this enough. I simply cannot get along with people that have horrid taste in music. It's a proven fact. A bazillion brownie points if he listens to Tool.
*Gamer. It's incredibly sexy when I can discuss/play games with him. ;P
*Respectful.
*Loyal
*Patient. I'm about half deaf and have bad vision so he'll need some patience with my constant "What" and "Where" questions.
*Genuinely loves me.
*Listens to me.
Stylish.
Unique.
Nice smile and eyes. <3
Chivalrous. It's so cute.
*Kind/sweet. <33333
Able/willing to cook and clean. <3
*Kitten. Like teddy bear in the sense of cuddles, hugs, and softness, but also meows when I call his name. I have this thing where I train people to meow, so...yeah. emotion_kirakira
Turn-offs
*Smoker/junkie/alcoholic. I wouldn't be able to handle it.
Slobbish.
*Doesn't wash hands/bathe.
*Constantly begs for sex. I will have sex when I'm ready, but for now, it disgusts me.
*Lazy. I can stand laziness to a certain extent, but pissing in bottles and not grabbing that remote that's an inch out of reach is ridiculous.
Imbecilic. I'm wise for my age, so I'd go nuts if I was with some dipshit.
Rude/disrespectful. Now, I won't get butthurt if he doesn't cut his porkchop into tiny pieces, but when people have pissy attitudes and are ungrateful, I go apeshit.
*Controlling.
Treats me differently/ignores me around his friends.
*Ashamed of me. I was done the first time. If he won't show me off after 6 damn months, it's over.
*Insensitive. There are too many pricks in my life. I don't need one macking on me.
*Boring. I never get bored, so if he somehow bores me, it isn't meant to be.
*Flirts with other girls. No. Just no.
*Awkward. "So...what do you wanna talk about now?" If you have to ask me, I won't know.
*Jo-bro eyebrows and horrid teeth. FIX THOSE THINGS.
*Whorish.
*Too much facial hair. Stubble and sideburns are fine though.
*Immoral.
*Compulsive liar.
*Greedy.
*Hairier than my cat.
*Cheap
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Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2012 3:22 pm
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Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2012 3:35 pm
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Turn ons: Taller than me, Funny, sweet, CUUUUUUUUTE, blue or brown eyes, longish hair, (where his jaw starts) nerdy, PDA, not too clingy, snugglely whee , flirty, strong (I just want him to be able to pick me up <3) skinny, christian would be GREAT and complimentary.
Turn OFFs: fat, (I don't know its just eww >.<) short hair, (I wanna be able to stroke his hair whee ) shorter than me, glasses (well glasses are kinda in the middle some guys look adorable with them on and some...DON'T) emo, tattoos, too many peircings (its ok it he has like his ears preirced like on the right or the left or both but nothing else please) in it for sex, pervy, ignorant, and sexist
Probably more for the turn offs but I don't want to take forever XD
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Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2012 3:41 pm
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Oh my gosh, these have changed so much over the years.
I love... a tall man, dark hair, some chest fuzz, strong, funny, smart, sweet, he doesn't mind if I eat more than he does sometimes.
I hate, needy girly boys who beg for a**l sex like their lives depend on it. Back hair, guys who are full of themselves.
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Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2012 8:30 pm
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I like my men tall, compassionate, mysterious, brutally honest, willing to exercise, and just someone that can get me out of my shell. I also seem to gravitate to guys with either little hair or long hair. And usually brown or hazel eyes.
I hate guys who feel the need to hang over and drool over me, cheaters, when that honesty becomes more like a verbal attack... I don't like being taller than my boyfriends (I'm 5'10 and the shortest one I've been with was 5'9).
Thing is, if I'm with a guy who frankly tells me he doesn't care and then goes around telling me no one else does either, my confidence will waiver. I have the tendency to be a bit too co-dependent and I will believe it to where I'm a broken fragment of myself. I'm working on it, but it's difficult.
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Posted: Thu Aug 23, 2012 12:19 pm
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