OMG! Its a thread about...Sex *GASP!*

[Henneth Annun]

my parents aren't very open about it and don't answer my questions, so i just listen to loveline on KROQ and get some questions answered through there, my parents think it's exclusivley for having kids, not fun or because your partner wants to be intamite with you...i see nothing wrong with sex...people breath, walk, talk, and have sex. whats bad about sex??  

[metalfandragula]

My father is extremely open lol, and my mother is so-so. I am very open with my parents with the subject, I really have no problem at all with it. Haha I sell rubbers to my friends around the neighborhood, $1 each. My mother knows, we were even at CVS today and she baught condoms for me to sell, as long as she gets part profit. Trojan Shared Pleasure Warming Sensation lol .  

[Ndoki]

See there are a few things though... sex isn't bad, no, it's a beatiful thing, but being improperly taught about sex can lead to... promiscuity, STD's, unwanted births, etc. Not only that but sex quite often does change people. I know far too many girls who were perfect and innocent, had sex, and then became total whores and ruined their life... and what usually causes that bad teaching and false impression? TV and the medias. Say they let porn on TV, or even sex scenes, does each one start off with the man and woman saying "I'm so glad we've been happily married for 5+ years, let's have sex to have a kid!" or "I don't know if we are prepared to have a kid right now...". It usually happens randomly, out of nowhere, and generally between two people who just met, or barely know anything about each other, and thinking about how I look at what I do, and what I'd want my kids doing, I don't think that's an image I want my kids to have in their heads when they are 13.  

[Loki Iago]

Sex has just turned into this overglamourized thing. Thinking about it scientifically, it's the most primitive act between two animals other than killing each other. It's ugly when looked at like that. It's also ugly the way our culture has made it.

Nowadays it's not intimate at all. It's something you buy on a magazine rack. We're giving too much of ourselves away and that's why sex is becoming ugly.  

[Henneth Annun]

SarahArden

Sex has just turned into this overglamourized thing. Thinking about it scientifically, it's the most primitive act between two animals other than killing each other. It's ugly when looked at like that. It's also ugly the way our culture has made it.

Nowadays it's not intimate at all. It's something you buy on a magazine rack. We're giving too much of ourselves away and that's why sex is becoming ugly.

yah it is...every other magazine has some type of "sex/intamacy" article in it...  

[RevlinHeartsblood]

as long as you dont get addicted to it, its fine  

[mee_shee]

I believe that it's natural.

But then again I'm not going to have sex if I don't love the guy, and/or I don't know for sure that he loves me back.

For girls, it can be more "emotional".

It has more meaning.

Not all guys are heartless about it - that's not what I am saying.  

[fools_love]

coriander18

Personally I like sex. I don't think theres anything wrong with it as long as your smart about it. And I feel sorry for those not having enough sex.

i agree  

[DieiNoctis]

Though I'm probably talking out of my a**, I've sworn off sex. Maybe not forever, but there are more important things in life to me.
Too many people that I either know, or have seen, have sexual or romantic relationships as thier "goal" in life. Even if they don't know it, that's what they strive to acheive.
Personally, I don't want that to be my goal. I want to acomplish something of real, lasting value to the world. I don't want my major acheivment in life to be raising a podling.
Don't get me wrong, if your goal is to rais a podling, more power to ya', you're helping humanity continue it's pathetic little existence. But it's just not for me.

I'll probably get married eventually, despite what I'm saying now. Though I doubt it will be for at least two or three more decades.
And if I can accomplish what I'm striving to within my lifetime. Two decades will be less than the blink of an eye.


So, here's my point. Sex is good, yes. It helps us continue living. But don't abuse it, and don't misuse it. And most of all, don't make it the focus of your life, or your relationships.  

[Tom Gunn 666]

just for the hell of it, i yelled "STOP HAVING SEX" as loud as I could in an airport.....half the people turned around, the other half started walking faster....

unrelated but hilarious...  

[CamTheHidden]

Sex: Totally Fine.

I have never had 'The Talk' in the normal sense. Not my Dad came up to me one day and couldn't get the nerve, not I walked in on my parents or anything like that, not that I saw porn lying around: it just never happened. Then, as soon as I started hitting puberty, my freind took my to the strip bar his dad owned and told one of the girls to fill me in on the facts of life.
Never bothered me, I took it in as it was handed to me, professionally and factually.
Oh, and to the guy selling condoms, good move. I jack my prices a little but hey, they're affordable, and who can put a price on pleasure and health?  

[Sica_Lunae]

CeciliaPhoenix

I wish that sex wasn't such a touchy subject for so many people. Me and my dad talk about it all of the time just so that he knows what I'm doing, who I'm doing it with, and making sure that I'm being safe about it. If more parents were like that, the world would be a much better place and people would be more comfortable with the idea that sex is one of the most important behaviors that humans ingage in and not something to be embarrassed about.

It's a very touchy subject with my parents. There was--and still is--no talking or acknowledgement of the existence of "sex."

I would love to talk to my parents about it, but I know that they would feel awkward about it, and that we wouldn't get anywhere.

I'm feeling kind of guilty though... Don't they have a right to know that I'm not a virgin? Oy... so confused.  

[SilentStrife]

I find nothing wrong with sex if its done for the right reason, It shouldn't be rushed . Becuase it might be a feeling that really wasn't met for that person. My point of view sex should be used to show someone you love them only if they love you back with the same passion. Sure sex is fun and it feels great but after a while meaningless sex gets boring. Its when you find one person that means alot does it matter.

Now on the topic that you stated saying it should be discussed more, I agree. Becuase when your young you get curious about it and you try things. When you know more about it you know the risks you know what can happen. Lets say you try it and the guy wears no condom . o_o Pop comes a baby .>..> Im glad I used a condom so far x.x Anyway ..... Thats what I have to say . Ohh.. And im new to the guild xd  

[Genica Pussywillow]

[I don't see anything wrong with sex, and I think parents should teac it to their kids (When they're mature enough to understand it)]
[But, I thinkpeople should keep info on their sex lives to themselves. Because, it's only really going to matter to youwhoever you're with anyway.]

[I do think it's freaky when 8-14 year olds have sex, though]
[If their actually mature enough, then I don't mind as much. But, when they act mature but just have low self esteem, it's quite depressingD:]  

[Genica Pussywillow]

Sica_Lunae

CeciliaPhoenix

I wish that sex wasn't such a touchy subject for so many people. Me and my dad talk about it all of the time just so that he knows what I'm doing, who I'm doing it with, and making sure that I'm being safe about it. If more parents were like that, the world would be a much better place and people would be more comfortable with the idea that sex is one of the most important behaviors that humans ingage in and not something to be embarrassed about.

It's a very touchy subject with my parents. There was--and still is--no talking or acknowledgement of the existence of "sex."

I would love to talk to my parents about it, but I know that they would feel awkward about it, and that we wouldn't get anywhere.

I'm feeling kind of guilty though... Don't they have a right to know that I'm not a virgin? Oy... so confused.

[Not really. They don't need to know when you had sex. As long as your careful, it's not really any of their business ^^]