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[Satyr Prince]

today is not a good day for my social skills. my aspergers is really bad today and im having a hard time expressing myself. the last few days have been this way, actually. i dont like it that i cant word things like i want to, and that what i type sometimes comes off the polar opposite of what i meant. i wish i could express myself better... crying

also, that one girl screaming about how she finds crystal gazer offensive, who obviously didnt even bother reading the front page, started harassing me on my profile stare sort of stuff is why i normally only post in guilds...  

[Collowrath]

Esiris

People who call me friend don't do this:
1) Justify whatever is being apologized for
2) Make privileged jokes

People who do that aren't friends.

I saw the thread in Supernatural that I'm pretty sure you're talking about. This is why I don't post there, even on topics that I'm interested in. There's a clique running around there that can do no wrong - even if they're completely or obviously wrong.

I am absolutely positive that, had you come into the Witchcraft thread and asked about their wart problem (or in the case of scorplett, made a similarly innocuous joke about the Irish) they'd all have jumped down your throat about it.

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Complaining aside; you're absolutely right that when a friend says "hey, I'm not okay with that" or "hey, that hurt my feelings," you stop and apologize. I can't imagine why it would appear even basically decent to try to justify hurting a friend's feelings. Unfortunately it seems like whenever I stumble across your posts someone is being a jerk. Someone must have stuck a post-it to your avatar's back or something. xp  

[Collowrath]

Strega Mama

also, that one girl screaming about how she finds crystal gazer offensive, who obviously didnt even bother reading the front page, started harassing me on my profile stare sort of stuff is why i normally only post in guilds...

Report her to the mods/admins asap. sad

and I know what you mean about expressing yourself. I have a lot of trouble in the petition and miss a lot of the discussion because I can't seem to say what I'm thinking the way I'm thinking it.  

[Esiris]

Strega Mama

today is not a good day for my social skills. my aspergers is really bad today and im having a hard time expressing myself. the last few days have been this way, actually. i dont like it that i cant word things like i want to, and that what i type sometimes comes off the polar opposite of what i meant. i wish i could express myself better... crying

also, that one girl screaming about how she finds crystal gazer offensive, who obviously didnt even bother reading the front page, started harassing me on my profile stare sort of stuff is why i normally only post in guilds...

Collowrath

Report her to the mods/admins asap. sad

and I know what you mean about expressing yourself. I have a lot of trouble in the petition and miss a lot of the discussion because I can't seem to say what I'm thinking the way I'm thinking it.

Mercury hasn't released from it's most recent retrograde yet. It won't for another few days.

Strega Mama>> Blackrose has reported their posts in the petition, and if you don't want to deal with them, I can report the posts in your profile for you.

Collowrath

I saw the thread in Supernatural that I'm pretty sure you're talking about. This is why I don't post there, even on topics that I'm interested in. There's a clique running around there that can do no wrong - even if they're completely or obviously wrong.

I am absolutely positive that, had you come into the Witchcraft thread and asked about their wart problem (or in the case of scorplett, made a similarly innocuous joke about the Irish) they'd all have jumped down your throat about it.

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Complaining aside; you're absolutely right that when a friend says "hey, I'm not okay with that" or "hey, that hurt my feelings," you stop and apologize. I can't imagine why it would appear even basically decent to try to justify hurting a friend's feelings. Unfortunately it seems like whenever I stumble across your posts someone is being a jerk. Someone must have stuck a post-it to your avatar's back or something. xp

I think you're right.
Hypocrites will be hypocrites.  

[Collowrath]

Esiris

Mercury hasn't released from it's most recent retrograde yet. It won't for another few days.

I never get the memo, but this explains so much of the past week. *waves fist at Mercury*

Quote:

I think you're right.
Hypocrites will be hypocrites.

That they will.  

[Gho the Girl]

I come from NY. As the saying go, we say "******** You" when we mean "Have a nice day." I can at times appreciate offensive humour, but if I offend someone, I'm going to apologise.

I know several St. Peter jokes, but I didn't tell them to my dying Catholic patient because he said he'd be offended. It's about respect.

I am of the view that one can use offensive humour if one likes, but don't kid yourself about it. It's called offensive humour for a reason. So if someone get's offended, that isn't on them, it's on the one who used the offensive humour. In a similar fashion, if you throw a ball at a guy's junk, and he bends over in pain, hilarity ensuement notwithstanding, your friend is now vomiting on the floor, and blaming him for not having more resilient testicles isn't going to save you when he decides turnabout is fair play.

In short, if you want to say offensive things, fine, but live with the consequences.  

[Cunning Witch Angus]

Hefalumps and woozles are spinning in my brain! When a subject is dropped in a forum it should not be picked up again via private messages that is just...what the ******** is that? I don't know. And then I am threatened with harassment charges if I contact them again? What is that?

Way to be....way to be.  

[Gho the Girl]

Arcanist Angus

Hefalumps and woozles are spinning in my brain! When a subject is dropped in a forum it should not be picked up again via private messages that is just...what the ******** is that? I don't know. And then I am threatened with harassment charges if I contact them again? What is that?

Way to be....way to be.

Coming from someone who said "drop it" and then brought it up three times after I said "Ok." that doesn't go very far.

Further considering that you said "Goodbye, I need to go talk with a silver instrument" you're lucky that wasn't taken as a threat.

Lastly, they told you not to contact them, then pm'ed them, quoting that section where they told you not to contact them.

You probably got reported for ignoring that simple request.  

[maenad nuri]

All of you: Don't bring your personal drama here. You all know better.  

[Esiris]

Collowrath

Esiris

Mercury hasn't released from it's most recent retrograde yet. It won't for another few days.

I never get the memo, but this explains so much of the past week. *waves fist at Mercury*

If you got the memo- Mercury wouldn't be in retrograde.  

[Cunning Witch Angus]

Nothing's changed. The colors are still the same. The arguments are still the same. I'm still stuck, still motionless. The only thing that has changed is my need for release, and I am too much of a coward to get rid of It.  

[Kuroiban]

Esiris

Collowrath

Esiris

Mercury hasn't released from it's most recent retrograde yet. It won't for another few days.

I never get the memo, but this explains so much of the past week. *waves fist at Mercury*

If you got the memo- Mercury wouldn't be in retrograde.

Touche it would seem...  

[Shearaha]

I just found out one of my best friends has cancer sad  

[saint dreya]

Shearaha

I just found out one of my best friends has cancer sad

Oh my. Did they say what kind of cancer?  

[Shearaha]

saint dreya

Shearaha

I just found out one of my best friends has cancer sad

Oh my. Did they say what kind of cancer?

Testicular. He's going in Friday to have the tumor (one of his testicles) removed. They're hoping that they get it all and that it hasn't spread.