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Posted: Sat Aug 14, 2010 12:43 pm
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Posted: Sat Aug 14, 2010 12:55 pm
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Posted: Sat Aug 14, 2010 12:57 pm
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Ultramarine Violet Iron Harlot - I am a big believer in taking strides toward equality and a sex-positive culture, but like any social reform, these things take time, and all shock factor does is... Well, shock people. It's not the thought-provoking tactic it used to be, because many Americans have forgotten how to think. I'm glad that you are proud of yourself, your love, and your body. Unfortunately, the current cultural standard does not equip people to handle that, so you must accordingly be prepared for people to make certain assumptions about you because of how you conduct yourself. Social reform isn't going to happen all at once, just because you ask it to- and even if it did, would you consider it a battle fairly and ethically won?
I get that people will make assumptions and react. That doesn't mean I have to like it. Or not fight it. Or not express myself to avoid it.
It isn't about shocking people. It's about being free to live the way I want. If people are shocked? That's their problem, not mine.
Besides, I'm a woman with a p***s. I shock people by existing. Not much I can do about people's feelings.
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Posted: Sat Aug 14, 2010 1:05 pm
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Posted: Sat Aug 14, 2010 1:14 pm
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Posted: Sat Aug 14, 2010 1:20 pm
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Ugh, ******** me, as usual.
Well, not really. I'm not gonna torture myself this time.
I forgot forgiveness, and that's biting me in the a**.
One of my patients gave me a small prayer book he made. There's only several pages, but wow.
ALSO this knight of wands had a sparring match with his knight of cups. Pain, crying, forgiveness ensued, but I'm still shook up.
Even knights get lost. Just as I wish to be forgiven, so must I also forgive. Instead of seeking to be understood, first I must understand.
I still hurt tho.
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Posted: Sat Aug 14, 2010 3:30 pm
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Ultramarine Violet Arcanist Angus *snip* Apathy is so much simpler. Well- just to get this out of the way so that I can respond as fairly and frankly as possible: Wow. I think that's about the most stupid I've ever felt in my life. There! Now that's out of the way: If it were any of my business, I'd probably tell you that there's nothing shameful about doing what brings you joy, and that that's probably the best place to start on the road toward being honest with yourself. I might also say that it's no use looking to others for cues on how to be you- what, are they supposed to know better how you should live? I might also suggest that you seek out a "safe zone" in which to experiment socially, sexually, etc. As in a setting or a group of friends in which you can give yourself permission to explore a transition to becoming more comfortable in your own skin. If it were any of my business, or you wanted my opinion. Really done now. Sorry, heh, I get so down on myself sometimes XD
But thank you for the advice. I am working on it and I probably need to seek out a therapist that I can be truthful with because I haven't been truthful with other counselors.
Sigh...I'll work through it and persevere as I always have biggrin
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Posted: Sat Aug 14, 2010 3:47 pm
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Esiris Iron Harlot I call the community GL... b.............(t?) for a reason. I feel a similar cut. I had an amazing relationship with a gal in high school who identified as Lesbian. We fell really hard for each other and were great together. A mutual friend pointed out I was Bi at a party. I hate being screamed at. I'm still confused when I'm told that I don't exist.
Ugh. Yeah, there's wicked biphobia in the community. Hence the b pushed off like that.
And if you're bi/pan/non-monosexual and trans (like myself) well, welcome to hell. >.<
I get to be told I don't exist in two ways. *sigh* I'm just so bitter.
Ultramarine Violet Iron Harlot I get that people will make assumptions and react. That doesn't mean I have to like it. Or not fight it. Or not express myself to avoid it. It isn't about shocking people. It's about being free to live the way I want. If people are shocked? That's their problem, not mine. Besides, I'm a woman with a p***s. I shock people by existing. Not much I can do about people's feelings. Fair enough, so. Just thought the idea might warrant consideration. You're a braver and stronger woman than I.
I don't have a choice. I'd be dead now if I wasn't strong.
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Posted: Sat Aug 14, 2010 3:53 pm
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Posted: Wed Aug 18, 2010 3:06 am
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Posted: Thu Aug 19, 2010 9:31 am
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Posted: Sun Aug 22, 2010 3:28 pm
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Posted: Sun Aug 22, 2010 9:35 pm
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Posted: Fri Aug 27, 2010 3:13 pm
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Posted: Sat Aug 28, 2010 9:58 pm
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