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My mother doesn't interfere with my clothes, or any of my tastes, but...well, she says awful things to me, sometimes. For example, I'll be folding laundry, and she'll catch sight of what I'm wearing, and say something along the lines of 'Why do you have to be so weird that people actually feel sorry for you?' Which I find offensive, because I don't think I ought to be pitied. I'm an intelligent, laid-back, together person, who does things my own way, without regard for anyone's approval but my own. How is any of that deserving of pity?
And then, there's my well-meaning Aunt. She'll see me, and the smile on her face freezes, like it's now forced, not genuine. 'You look......unique.' Which I deal with, whatever. But when I showed up in normal clothes (she was picking me up from my mom's office, where I was instructed to "dress normal") today, she was all over me. Hugs, and 'You look so cute! You look so normal! I'm so glad to see you normal! Every time I see you you're dressed like the haunted mansion! You look so normal! I'm so glad!'
...Which despite the fact that I usually don't care, I find hurtful and offensive. She acts like me in normal clothes is the real me back from a long vacation or something...which I'm not, it's like me as a neo-victorian isn't even registering as a person.
Frustrating, frustrating.
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Megumi Selwyn My mother doesn't interfere with my clothes, or any of my tastes, but...well, she says awful things to me, sometimes. For example, I'll be folding laundry, and she'll catch sight of what I'm wearing, and say something along the lines of 'Why do you have to be so weird that people actually feel sorry for you?' Which I find offensive, because I don't think I ought to be pitied. I'm an intelligent, laid-back, together person, who does things my own way, without regard for anyone's approval but my own. How is any of that deserving of pity? And then, there's my well-meaning Aunt. She'll see me, and the smile on her face freezes, like it's now forced, not genuine. 'You look......unique.' Which I deal with, whatever. But when I showed up in normal clothes (she was picking me up from my mom's office, where I was instructed to "dress normal") today, she was all over me. Hugs, and 'You look so cute! You look so normal! I'm so glad to see you normal! Every time I see you you're dressed like the haunted mansion! You look so normal! I'm so glad!' ...Which despite the fact that I usually don't care, I find hurtful and offensive. She acts like me in normal clothes is the real me back from a long vacation or something...which I'm not, it's like me as a neo-victorian isn't even registering as a person.Frustrating, frustrating. I get that from my grandmother all the time, I feel the same way you do, and I have no advice on that.
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Posted: Sun Jul 26, 2009 10:33 pm
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XWraith_LordX Megumi Selwyn My mother doesn't interfere with my clothes, or any of my tastes, but...well, she says awful things to me, sometimes. For example, I'll be folding laundry, and she'll catch sight of what I'm wearing, and say something along the lines of 'Why do you have to be so weird that people actually feel sorry for you?' Which I find offensive, because I don't think I ought to be pitied. I'm an intelligent, laid-back, together person, who does things my own way, without regard for anyone's approval but my own. How is any of that deserving of pity? And then, there's my well-meaning Aunt. She'll see me, and the smile on her face freezes, like it's now forced, not genuine. 'You look......unique.' Which I deal with, whatever. But when I showed up in normal clothes (she was picking me up from my mom's office, where I was instructed to "dress normal") today, she was all over me. Hugs, and 'You look so cute! You look so normal! I'm so glad to see you normal! Every time I see you you're dressed like the haunted mansion! You look so normal! I'm so glad!' ...Which despite the fact that I usually don't care, I find hurtful and offensive. She acts like me in normal clothes is the real me back from a long vacation or something...which I'm not, it's like me as a neo-victorian isn't even registering as a person.Frustrating, frustrating. I get that from my grandmother all the time, I feel the same way you do, and I have no advice on that. ...
Frustrating, isn't it?
I mean, it's nothing I'll lose sleep over, but it's just one of those rare things that actually gets under my skin.
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Posted: Wed Jul 29, 2009 2:17 pm
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