Ebony the Peacian
The longer you wait to take serious legal action against this jerk, the more and more he will persist and have the time to invent and execute different ways to harass you. Your real-life friends are not in your shoes; if you feel threatened, you have every right to do what's necessary to stay safe, even if it's uncomfortable or scary.
About taking the money, I, personally, wouldn't touch it. You are a victim and never deserved this, and touching the money, even for daily necessities, makes you look like you accepted the money from him on good terms, which might look sketchy to police or a jury. I would do screenshots of your online bank account to show when, exactly, he deposited money, and how much -- just in case you should need to show it in a court of law.
About taking the money, I, personally, wouldn't touch it. You are a victim and never deserved this, and touching the money, even for daily necessities, makes you look like you accepted the money from him on good terms, which might look sketchy to police or a jury. I would do screenshots of your online bank account to show when, exactly, he deposited money, and how much -- just in case you should need to show it in a court of law.
MitsunaKay
@Everyone
Thanks everyone for being concerned.
I want (wish) to make a police report about this creep again.
But before that... I want to make sure about something. Since he banks in money to me without me asking for any of it... If he make a false report on me saying that I scam or cheat his money every month. Will his charges be effective? Or am I safe from this possibility?
@k i r a i g o u
I'll be updating. Yes... He's a really scary creepy guy...
@xXNi-ChanXx
I had been asking my real life friends for their opinions on this... but all they told me is that this guy is just persistent and told me that ignoring him would do it.... but it drags to 10months... and they still tell me that he's just really persistent, nothing bad... but the fact is I've been feeling very very uneasy about this fella for all those months...thus this.... cry and also, since he's able to dig up my friend's phone number... I'm guessing he can dig up my home address from the college record too... but fortunately, he never appear at my house... thank god... So.. one of the reasons too, is that I'm scared that if I report without knowing what he does really meant will put me and my family in danger... this applies to the above paragraph too... I'm really scared that he'll come to my house and create more trouble...
Thanks everyone for being concerned.
I want (wish) to make a police report about this creep again.
But before that... I want to make sure about something. Since he banks in money to me without me asking for any of it... If he make a false report on me saying that I scam or cheat his money every month. Will his charges be effective? Or am I safe from this possibility?
@k i r a i g o u
I'll be updating. Yes... He's a really scary creepy guy...
@xXNi-ChanXx
I had been asking my real life friends for their opinions on this... but all they told me is that this guy is just persistent and told me that ignoring him would do it.... but it drags to 10months... and they still tell me that he's just really persistent, nothing bad... but the fact is I've been feeling very very uneasy about this fella for all those months...thus this.... cry and also, since he's able to dig up my friend's phone number... I'm guessing he can dig up my home address from the college record too... but fortunately, he never appear at my house... thank god... So.. one of the reasons too, is that I'm scared that if I report without knowing what he does really meant will put me and my family in danger... this applies to the above paragraph too... I'm really scared that he'll come to my house and create more trouble...
Yes, I forgot to say, definitely don't take the money. If, say, he gets arrested and the money is still there, ask the police if it could still be used against you or not. But for now, don't touch it.