TigerLilyChick
I would personally never make the first move on the guy. I don't want to seem desperate. Plus, I'm a shy person. But mainly I feel like a girl shouldn't make the first move because she will be seen as desperate.
Anyone who sees you as desperate for making the first move is not worth your time. That kind of mentality - fearing people will think you're desperate if you make the first move - might not be helping how shy you are.