How To Not Attract Creepers

[Audacious Audino]

If you are modest you wouldn't attract creepers, or at least far less.
I'm super modest and haven't been hit on yet. But I'm thirteen and I make sure to let all the guys know I won't give them the time of day if they're trying to get a girlfriend. The solution is to either where a comfortable jacket that covers you, or just say you're lesbian. It should make at least half the guys leave. X3  

[This Isnt Sparta]

I get my share of creepers. Mostly from older dudes. There's no point in telling these old cradle robbers that you're taken already. 9/10 times they wont leave me alone about it. They just see it as a challenge and try to tell me that my boyfriend cant satisfy me or take care of me like they can. I just tell them Im not ******** interested.  

[flauterfli]

be ugly like moi? xp
 

[Hersheydudette]

Aww, flauterfli. You're not ugly. (:

I, too, attract creepers, but mine aren't random. I think my problem is being too nice. And mirroring people. Like if guys are nice to me, I'm nice to them, and they start interpreting things. Or I feel bad not being nice. The last creeper I had was a guy with a speaking disorder and a mental disorder who would wait outside my dorm. It was hard to be mean to him because I could tell he had trouble fitting in places.

It's a bad idea. Just be heartless.  

[TH3_G1ITCH_]

+Pepsi.Product.Orgasm+

That's really horrible, hun! *hugs*
I've never had that issue but I wouldn't tell you to cover yourself up like someone said. ;>>
You should be able to wear what you want without the hassle of these pervs.
I wish society would just teach this already!

Damn creepers who think by acting this way they're going to "get some".

I hope you are okay.
*Passes Hot Chocolate* Be strong and proud.
And push the pervs off their seats if they do it again. X3  

[SoGummylicious]

MY GOD, I also look young but I'm 17 and get told I look 11 any ways I don't know what the problem is. sad  

[pay me in tea]

Audacious Audino

or just say you're lesbian.

Sometimes that doesn't work... they start asking for a threesome or say you just haven't 'met the right guy' yet, etc, etc. Also, it can be scary depending on who you're saying that to because there are still a lot of homophobes everywhere so that could also make things a bit worse.  

[ala88in]

+Pepsi.Product.Orgasm+

Honestly, I apparently look like jail bait. I'm only 5'1", and I'm pretty busty and curvey, but my face looks so freaking young it's unbelievable. I'm twenty-three and most people assume I'm around sixteen. The youngest I've been told after I turned twenty-three was fourteen. (I personally don't think I look that young, but it's what people assume.)

I just tend to attract the older men and creepers. I understand that when I wear lower cut shirts, of course a creeper would come around every once in a while. But it just gets ridiculous.

The last time I went to IHOP, I was the immediate target of a creeper the moment I sat down. (I was wearing a sweatshirt that covered all the essentials.) The first thing he did was turn around and tell me how beautiful my boobs were. He then proceeded to tell me I probably was a sexy child, and it escalated to the point where they moved my seat and had to walk me out to my vehicle because he creeped me out.

It's not the first time that I've been targeted towards weird guys. I know I'm pretty odd, but I didn't think I was the same crazy as them.

Halp?

yah i gotta admit its really creepy  

[angelmitsuna]

Yeap. Creepy guys are all over the place nowadays stressed but I always ignore if I think someone's creepy. blaugh

there's a stranger who actually said "hey sweetie. did anyone tell you how cute you are?" out of nowhere... that creeps me out and I just ignored him... because for one, I don't know them. Two, what goes on in my mind is "You're just about visual? *Shoo shoo* Go away." xp Am I too rude?

and also, there's 1 guy (someone i don't even know) in facebook who in my opinion is uber rude when he suddenly sends me this message, "Hi. Is that pic really you?" and.... I ignored him too cause I hate rude people. Tee Hee xp  

[Kitalpha Hart]

SoGummylicious

MY GOD, I also look young but I'm 17 and get told I look 11 any ways I don't know what the problem is. sad

my age ranges from 12 to mid-20s
So, according to that low range, I've been 12 (albeit a really frikkin tall 12 now) for ten years
I'm 19 o.e

For me, headset plugged into iPad with music loud enough to be at least somewhat heard. And distracted by something like art
And that's at college, the only time I'm not with someone while out in public. The rest of the time I'm with someone. They think my mom and I are siblings until I call her mom (and it's not just guys, mom's had women ask her if I just called her mom), my sister, especially when in her uniform (paramedic EMT), just drives them off because uniform looks similar to police enough to possibly assume so, and my dad is tall. If they find out that he's a retired Marine...sucks to be them heart  

[Trance Harper]

some might say this is crazy, but try reading a book about being a dom
(like a dominant or a dominatrix) and take some of the things it says to
heart.

obviously this involves being a little openminded and I'm not saying read
it in public or anything! but, it can make a huge difference about the way
you carry yourself and the way other people subconsciously perceive you.
I used to get hit on aggressively whenever I went out to the point that I
couldn't go out without big bouncer-sized friends, which sucks. you
don't want to have to change your life because of someone else who isn't
that important.
I got into all these "bombshell" and "dominant woman" books and suddenly
everyone was like, 'you seem really different, like scary.' it was all in the
way I walked, the way I looked at people, everything and I barely realized
I was doing it but I was basically totally intimidating.

now, on the flip side, guys that I want to talk to me don't unless I really
tone it down and make it clear that I'm interested... but I haven't had to
deal with any creeper types in ages.

and for reference I'm 24 and actually "look my age" now (not really, I look
19). even my friends used to joke that I was 16 before this change.

 

[SoGummylicious]

Kitalpha Hart

SoGummylicious

MY GOD, I also look young but I'm 17 and get told I look 11 any ways I don't know what the problem is. sad

my age ranges from 12 to mid-20s
So, according to that low range, I've been 12 (albeit a really frikkin tall 12 now) for ten years
I'm 19 o.e

For me, headset plugged into iPad with music loud enough to be at least somewhat heard. And distracted by something like art
And that's at college, the only time I'm not with someone while out in public. The rest of the time I'm with someone. They think my mom and I are siblings until I call her mom (and it's not just guys, mom's had women ask her if I just called her mom), my sister, especially when in her uniform (paramedic EMT), just drives them off because uniform looks similar to police enough to possibly assume so, and my dad is tall. If they find out that he's a retired Marine...sucks to be them heart

I hear you will feel it is a compliment to have someone assume you are young when older 4laugh  

[Kitalpha Hart]

SoGummylicious

Kitalpha Hart

SoGummylicious

MY GOD, I also look young but I'm 17 and get told I look 11 any ways I don't know what the problem is. sad

my age ranges from 12 to mid-20s
So, according to that low range, I've been 12 (albeit a really frikkin tall 12 now) for ten years
I'm 19 o.e

For me, headset plugged into iPad with music loud enough to be at least somewhat heard. And distracted by something like art
And that's at college, the only time I'm not with someone while out in public. The rest of the time I'm with someone. They think my mom and I are siblings until I call her mom (and it's not just guys, mom's had women ask her if I just called her mom), my sister, especially when in her uniform (paramedic EMT), just drives them off because uniform looks similar to police enough to possibly assume so, and my dad is tall. If they find out that he's a retired Marine...sucks to be them heart

I hear you will feel it is a compliment to have someone assume you are young when older 4laugh

...not when it's really obvious that I'm not freaking twelve. The it gets insulting  

[xoAniLuv]

It doesn't matter what you wear, how "modest" you are, or some crap like that. If there are people around, say "I feel uncomfortable!" really loudly. If not, try to creep out the creeper.  

[SoGummylicious]

Kitalpha Hart

SoGummylicious

Kitalpha Hart

SoGummylicious

MY GOD, I also look young but I'm 17 and get told I look 11 any ways I don't know what the problem is. sad

my age ranges from 12 to mid-20s
So, according to that low range, I've been 12 (albeit a really frikkin tall 12 now) for ten years
I'm 19 o.e

For me, headset plugged into iPad with music loud enough to be at least somewhat heard. And distracted by something like art
And that's at college, the only time I'm not with someone while out in public. The rest of the time I'm with someone. They think my mom and I are siblings until I call her mom (and it's not just guys, mom's had women ask her if I just called her mom), my sister, especially when in her uniform (paramedic EMT), just drives them off because uniform looks similar to police enough to possibly assume so, and my dad is tall. If they find out that he's a retired Marine...sucks to be them heart

I hear you will feel it is a compliment to have someone assume you are young when older 4laugh

...not when it's really obvious that I'm not freaking twelve. The it gets insulting

oh yes! I understand that does kill my mood.