So, girls, I have a question for all a y'all.

[viper_353]

It depends the quality of a relationship people want.
Usually you'll see people hanging around a lot or going on dates with eachother before they actually consider themselves to be in a relationship.
With the 'let's go to the mall, walk around holding eachothers hands and then break up in a week....' well, I don't think that's what I'D want on a date. If that's what they call it I don't care, but to me that seems waayy tacky.
I also think that a guy and a girl should know eachother for some time before dating....
lol, but I'm pretty old fashioned too.  

[ShePotterGleek]

Bloody Vaginal Belch

Middle schoolers shouldn't be dating, IMO. I guess dating would mean actual dating. Like, dinner and a movie.

I agree.

My best friend and her boyfriend have been off and on for almost a year now, mainly on. they go out every Friday to the movies, and hang out together every week at the Farmers Market that is every tuesday. She goes to a different school, but they text almost constantly and see each other when they can.

But, I don't get why teens date at all. I mean, teen brains aren't fully developed. They don't even know who they are, yet we insist on dating people, committing to people we don't know.  

[Lady Kira X]

When you both have a commitment to eachother.

At least thats what I believe it is.  

[Lady Kira X]

PANDA reading a BOOK

Bloody Vaginal Belch

Middle schoolers shouldn't be dating, IMO. I guess dating would mean actual dating. Like, dinner and a movie.

I agree.

My best friend and her boyfriend have been off and on for almost a year now, mainly on. they go out every Friday to the movies, and hang out together every week at the Farmers Market that is every tuesday. She goes to a different school, but they text almost constantly and see each other when they can.

But, I don't get why teens date at all. I mean, teen brains aren't fully developed. They don't even know who they are, yet we insist on dating people, committing to people we don't know.

Because its a learning experience.
You are right.. we don't know who we are.
What better than to find out..
I rather learn at the age of 17 what I like in men & what they like in me than at 23 & still trying to figure out dating.  

[xukshia]

In my opinion, dating in middle school and the whole of high school isn't your future; the house you'll live in, the man you'll marry, or even the best of the best. If a person dates in middle school and high school, a gf relies on her bf to do everything for her. But she just doesn't comprehend that if she can't concentrate on homework and grades, what her life turns out to really be. . . the opposite of what she expects.

 

[Tsukuyomi25021]

What I Consider Dating (in public that is):
-holding hands in the hallway
-kissing them before they go to class  

[khailabree]

Real dating wouldnt be eating lunch at school then postin on facebook that u have a boy/girlfriend then breaking up with them.
It to me is dinner and a movie. Or some place usually you wouldnt go to ever.