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Posted: Tue Mar 30, 2010 3:12 pm
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Posted: Tue Mar 30, 2010 3:43 pm
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Posted: Tue Mar 30, 2010 7:16 pm
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I think the important question that hasn't been asked is how long were you two together? If I'd been dating a guy for a couple of years, and he had a new girlfriend the day after we broke up, I'd be pretty crushed that I had meant that little to him after that much time. However, if you've only been together for a week or two... well, the relationship hadn't really had time to get serious yet, had it? In that case, I can see where you'd be a little upset that he moved on so fast, but I don't think you have a right to be angry with people because of it.
I've actually been in a similar situation before. One of my very best friends started dating my ex after we broke up (a few weeks later). He and I had been together for almost a year. I broke up with him because I didn't like who I was becoming with him and didn't like the vision of our life together that I was getting. When my friend started dating him, I did sit down and talk to her about it, but not because I was upset that she was dating my ex. I was worried about it because I didn't think they would be a good match and I was worried about her. In the end, I let her make her own decision and they dated for quite a while before calling it off because they mutually realized that they were really bad for each other. She and I are still really close friends, and since I'm pretty sure a proposal is coming soon in my future, I'm hoping she'll agree to be one of my attendants at my wedding. My ex and I don't really stay in contact any more, but he and my boyfriend are pretty good friends, so I hear about him occasionally.
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Posted: Tue Mar 30, 2010 7:34 pm
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Posted: Wed Mar 31, 2010 5:23 pm
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he and i have been going out for 2 months. working on our 3rd. now shes making up all these ******** lies about me. saying that i tried 2 break them up or that i was talking 2 the guy making him try 2 break up with her and saying bad things about her. i was not. and i was pissed off. AriaStarSong I think the important question that hasn't been asked is how long were you two together? If I'd been dating a guy for a couple of years, and he had a new girlfriend the day after we broke up, I'd be pretty crushed that I had meant that little to him after that much time. However, if you've only been together for a week or two... well, the relationship hadn't really had time to get serious yet, had it? In that case, I can see where you'd be a little upset that he moved on so fast, but I don't think you have a right to be angry with people because of it. I've actually been in a similar situation before. One of my very best friends started dating my ex after we broke up (a few weeks later). He and I had been together for almost a year. I broke up with him because I didn't like who I was becoming with him and didn't like the vision of our life together that I was getting. When my friend started dating him, I did sit down and talk to her about it, but not because I was upset that she was dating my ex. I was worried about it because I didn't think they would be a good match and I was worried about her. In the end, I let her make her own decision and they dated for quite a while before calling it off because they mutually realized that they were really bad for each other. She and I are still really close friends, and since I'm pretty sure a proposal is coming soon in my future, I'm hoping she'll agree to be one of my attendants at my wedding. My ex and I don't really stay in contact any more, but he and my boyfriend are pretty good friends, so I hear about him occasionally.
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Posted: Wed Mar 31, 2010 5:25 pm
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Posted: Thu Apr 01, 2010 12:28 am
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Posted: Thu Apr 01, 2010 3:23 pm
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Posted: Fri Apr 02, 2010 7:18 am
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Posted: Fri Apr 02, 2010 7:36 am
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Posted: Fri Apr 02, 2010 2:57 pm
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Posted: Fri Apr 02, 2010 7:44 pm
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Posted: Sat Apr 03, 2010 12:53 am
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Posted: Sat Apr 03, 2010 8:22 am
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Posted: Sat Apr 03, 2010 8:32 am
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