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Posted: Thu Jun 18, 2009 12:00 am
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Posted: Fri Jun 26, 2009 10:25 am
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I think it could work depending on the couple. Personally, I'm not sure I could do it, but it would really depend.
I think sharing your faith with your partner is extremely important, and, fun fact, studies show that couples who pray together actually have better sex. I think it something you need to decide about how you want to interact with your partner on a spiritual level. Personally, I prefer to keep my prayers to myself, but my boyfriend and I regularly discuss our religious views with one another. He calls himself a Transcendentalist, but in reality he's a Christian with views very similar to mine. My previous "relationship" was with a guy who was very Christian, and has since gotten more conservative since leaving for college. He basically decided when he wanted to see me, and when he was done with me, etc. He abused my forgiving nature and took advantage of my loyalty. In the end, he ended up being a total jerk. While people would probably consider him more "Christian" than my current boyfriend, my current boyfriend treats me much, much better and actually makes me feel like I have a sense or worth.
I've seen some relationships that work, and others that have just crashed and burned. It really comes down to treating it like any other relationship- communication and making sure you're both on the same page.
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Posted: Sat Jun 27, 2009 6:56 pm
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Posted: Sat Jun 27, 2009 8:19 pm
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Priestley has some good points too. What most people fail to consider in the 'equally yoked' discussions is that you're supposed to be at roughly the same place in your walk as your partner, along with having roughly the same intellectual, emotional and spiritual maturity.
I was married to a Christian for a time, and ultimately, she and I weren't in the same places intellectually and emotionally. My new relationship has us matched much better in every area except religion: and even then, we have the same spiritual maturity, even if it's aimed at two different things. I consider this relationship to be much stronger and better for me, even if religion is something we don't agree on. It's actually something for us to discuss between ourselves, sometimes seriously, sometimes jokingly, but it always brings us closer.
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