Zafkiel
Well, I have a random thought...
I dont understand why, people are always on the look out for a boyfriend or a girlfriend. Sometimes, it really annoys me because that's all they can think of, they make if seem as if haveing a girlfriend or a boyfriend is just everything these is to life. It's as if there's nothing else in the world that they can do.
A lot of my friends tell me that they're afraid to be alone. But to me, somtimes being alone is the best thing for one person. Get your thoughts together, get to know yourself and only yourself. Sometimes, to me, trusting someone - having a boyfriend or a girlfriend is the busiest job of all. You're always thinking, what if he breaks up with me? What if he ends up liking someone else. Doesn't it... get annoying after a while? I know it does for me, espicially when my friends are complaining it to me.
So, what makes having a girlfriend or boyfriend so... special?
I dont understand why, people are always on the look out for a boyfriend or a girlfriend. Sometimes, it really annoys me because that's all they can think of, they make if seem as if haveing a girlfriend or a boyfriend is just everything these is to life. It's as if there's nothing else in the world that they can do.
A lot of my friends tell me that they're afraid to be alone. But to me, somtimes being alone is the best thing for one person. Get your thoughts together, get to know yourself and only yourself. Sometimes, to me, trusting someone - having a boyfriend or a girlfriend is the busiest job of all. You're always thinking, what if he breaks up with me? What if he ends up liking someone else. Doesn't it... get annoying after a while? I know it does for me, espicially when my friends are complaining it to me.
So, what makes having a girlfriend or boyfriend so... special?
Well here's what I think.
I think that having a boyfriend is special because you know that there's someone there for you all the time, who loves you and wants to be with you. Someone who likes who you are as a person and sees not only the beauty on the outside but the inside too. I mean I know it's rare to find a bf like that but that's why people tend to look around alot, they're trying to find "the one".
I wasn't even looking for a bf at the time I found mine. At the time I couldn't even have him cuz he was taken, but I waited and sure I looked at other guys but he already had my heart. So yeah I hate being dependent on someone else and I honestly have never been dependent on anyone but myself and sometimes my mommy. So yeah I never really looked around for a bf...I just randomly found mine.
I guess I didn't really answer your question huh? Sorry =(
I think that having a boyfriend is special because you know that there's someone there for you all the time, who loves you and wants to be with you. Someone who likes who you are as a person and sees not only the beauty on the outside but the inside too. I mean I know it's rare to find a bf like that but that's why people tend to look around alot, they're trying to find "the one".
I wasn't even looking for a bf at the time I found mine. At the time I couldn't even have him cuz he was taken, but I waited and sure I looked at other guys but he already had my heart. So yeah I hate being dependent on someone else and I honestly have never been dependent on anyone but myself and sometimes my mommy. So yeah I never really looked around for a bf...I just randomly found mine.
I guess I didn't really answer your question huh? Sorry =(