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Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 7:05 am
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Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 6:47 pm
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Posted: Wed May 02, 2007 12:54 pm
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Posted: Sun Jul 22, 2007 9:35 pm
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Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 5:26 pm
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Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 8:41 pm
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Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 11:52 pm
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Posted: Wed Jul 25, 2007 3:03 pm
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xXRubixCubeXx what is your view on online dating? because mine is a little off right now and i don't know what exactly to think.
Never Date ONLINE! It's not SAFE!!! 
Dating online is way too dangerous, as in you're leaving yourself open to all sorts of danger.
i.e. Fake Love: Well it is quite common that to some people online dating and marriages are a form of escape from reality.
The love you might feel will be real, but in all practicality, it's impossible to live it through, because it's only mentally gratifying. The mental high is fantastic, but it's also unreal, and feeds only the fantasy or the "love dream"... and makes you look at real life a bit distortedly. Real life romances can be so much sweeter, but because your mental image of romance is distorted or magnified with your online love, that makes reality a paler shade compared to what's in your head.
Beyond that, there's those who feed on people's emotions. In real life they don't get enough love or affection so they create this fantasy for someone else to fall for, and it's like a spider wooing the fly... Feeding your love dream so they will get your emotions. The force that is in it is phenomenal. A person can really pull all your strings in an online romance...
The biggest danger is not that the online "wonderful creature" is not sexy or appealing in real life... But that they can really be sadistic and power hungry, and the online romance feeds their greed for emotions that should ony be present in a real life relationship, which they can't handle.
Real life relationships are big responsibilities. Online Love allows the people involved to excape accountability for the things they do. They can cheat on you in real life and you won't know it, because you only know them online.
But the worst of the dangers would have to be... what if the other person is the reincarnation of Jack the Ripper???
Would your love be strong enough? |
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Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 10:49 am
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Posted: Mon Sep 03, 2007 7:32 pm
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Posted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 2:09 am
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Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 2:51 am
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Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 8:18 am
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Posted: Sat Oct 13, 2007 10:42 am
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Jirou Hotaru xXRubixCubeXx what is your view on online dating? because mine is a little off right now and i don't know what exactly to think. Never Date ONLINE! It's not SAFE!!! Dating online is way too dangerous, as in you're leaving yourself open to all sorts of danger. i.e. Fake Love: Well it is quite common that to some people online dating and marriages are a form of escape from reality. The love you might feel will be real, but in all practicality, it's impossible to live it through, because it's only mentally gratifying. The mental high is fantastic, but it's also unreal, and feeds only the fantasy or the "love dream"... and makes you look at real life a bit distortedly. Real life romances can be so much sweeter, but because your mental image of romance is distorted or magnified with your online love, that makes reality a paler shade compared to what's in your head. Beyond that, there's those who feed on people's emotions. In real life they don't get enough love or affection so they create this fantasy for someone else to fall for, and it's like a spider wooing the fly... Feeding your love dream so they will get your emotions. The force that is in it is phenomenal. A person can really pull all your strings in an online romance... The biggest danger is not that the online "wonderful creature" is not sexy or appealing in real life... But that they can really be sadistic and power hungry, and the online romance feeds their greed for emotions that should ony be present in a real life relationship, which they can't handle. Real life relationships are big responsibilities. Online Love allows the people involved to excape accountability for the things they do. They can cheat on you in real life and you won't know it, because you only know them online. But the worst of the dangers would have to be... what if the other person is the reincarnation of Jack the Ripper??? Would your love be strong enough?
Alright, I understand that SOME online relationships aren't good, and I get the whole 'distortion of real life thing' but trust me, I date all of the time, both real life and internet (yes sir i've done both, but not at the same time) now you see, if a real life relationship can be so much sweeter, and in your mind an online relationship is great then explain to me how they could feel so much different, because I really must know, I'm only 12 but I probably understand the human mind better than a psychiatrist so you can say whatever u want to but in all actuality it's not much different
and as for the reinarnation of jack the ripper bullshit, ive NEVER been in a relationship liek that, trust me, everyone ive online dated i have MET in real life AFTER a while of conevsation and been just fine
Now I understand that there are forty year old pervs jacking off to every word his little 13 year old beauty queen is saying, so I always take necessary precautions, I bring friends along, MULTIPLE friends, as in two or three, we hang out, and sometime, more love connections form, so now all im gonna say to you is online date for a while and then get your facts straight |
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