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Posted: Tue Sep 05, 2006 2:06 am
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Posted: Tue Sep 05, 2006 3:32 am
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emoness_randomness lets just say that my life is a mess right now. My love life is going down the drain because i am getting accused of being a slut by the whole school. My mum has totally lost it! she is also calling me a slut all the time. my dad; well i never get to see him, wouldnt want to anyway because he is a major druggo and i hate it. i have a little brother that is sick and i cant see him because his mum is a total whore. Ive been so bad (cutting myself) lately that i have gotten like, 7 major cuts that i infected more by trying to stitch-them up by myself. what do you guys reccon i should do about it? E_M
Firstly, your 13, nobody's love life is set in stone when they are 13. As for the people at school, well there are two ways to deal with that, the way the teachers say... or the way that works, the way the teachers say, is to ignore them. The way that works, is to kick the absolute crap out of them, if your not strong enough, doesn't matter, get your friends involved. Your mum sounds basically like a whacko, ignore her, she will go away in 5 years, or rather, you can go away from her (5 years ain't long). Your dad, well as you said don't see him and don't particularly want to see him, so no issue there. Now the next one is a tricky one, I've had a similar problem, though it wasn't with such close family, I'm afraid until your brother, is at least 16 theres not much you can do within the legal system, however you can arrange to meet him in places, even if he is only little, do things like drop by his school to see how he is. The cutting, I could call you stupid, arrogant and a fool, but I won't, there is no simple way to stop this, except to find another form of emotional release, some say drawing or playing music, I say, get some disused lumber, or a punch bag and beat the hell out of it, letting all your anger flow out with every blow, then if that still isn't enough, let out a scream and fall to floor, take some breaths and walk to somewhere you feel safe and comfortable to wind down. Not the best advice in the world, but its all I can offer.
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Posted: Tue Sep 05, 2006 4:00 am
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Posted: Tue Sep 05, 2006 7:17 am
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Posted: Thu Sep 07, 2006 2:33 am
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Posted: Sun Sep 10, 2006 11:26 pm
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Posted: Wed Sep 13, 2006 1:04 am
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Posted: Fri Oct 06, 2006 11:28 pm
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Rellik San emoness_randomness lets just say that my life is a mess right now. My love life is going down the drain because i am getting accused of being a slut by the whole school. My mum has totally lost it! she is also calling me a slut all the time. my dad; well i never get to see him, wouldnt want to anyway because he is a major druggo and i hate it. i have a little brother that is sick and i cant see him because his mum is a total whore. Ive been so bad (cutting myself) lately that i have gotten like, 7 major cuts that i infected more by trying to stitch-them up by myself. what do you guys reccon i should do about it? E_M Firstly, your 13, nobody's love life is set in stone when they are 13. As for the people at school, well there are two ways to deal with that, the way the teachers say... or the way that works, the way the teachers say, is to ignore them. The way that works, is to kick the absolute crap out of them, if your not strong enough, doesn't matter, get your friends involved. Your mum sounds basically like a whacko, ignore her, she will go away in 5 years, or rather, you can go away from her (5 years ain't long). Your dad, well as you said don't see him and don't particularly want to see him, so no issue there. Now the next one is a tricky one, I've had a similar problem, though it wasn't with such close family, I'm afraid until your brother, is at least 16 theres not much you can do within the legal system, however you can arrange to meet him in places, even if he is only little, do things like drop by his school to see how he is. The cutting, I could call you stupid, arrogant and a fool, but I won't, there is no simple way to stop this, except to find another form of emotional release, some say drawing or playing music, I say, get some disused lumber, or a punch bag and beat the hell out of it, letting all your anger flow out with every blow, then if that still isn't enough, let out a scream and fall to floor, take some breaths and walk to somewhere you feel safe and comfortable to wind down. Not the best advice in the world, but its all I can offer.
When your 13 you dont have a love life. Its lust. And your family isnt going to start being understanding by you cutting yourself. Your really stupid for stitching them up by your self. Sorry to be so harsh but what did you do to be called a slut? I mean seriously get therapy cutting doesnt help. Talking does dont cause harm to yourself. Good luck. <3
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Posted: Sat Oct 07, 2006 5:57 am
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Posted: Sat Oct 07, 2006 4:25 pm
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Posted: Sat Oct 07, 2006 8:28 pm
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Posted: Tue Oct 10, 2006 2:33 pm
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Posted: Tue Oct 10, 2006 5:30 pm
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Posted: Sun Oct 15, 2006 9:34 pm
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Posted: Mon Oct 16, 2006 8:17 pm
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cuttings a big deal, hun. look inside yourself, don't lie, be completely honest in every possible way for your own good, and ask yourself why you do it. I'm never asking you to share the answer, it's way to personnal. but ask yourself the REAL reason you do it, and what you thought you would achieve by it. then deal with that before you deal with anything else.
If your strong enough to make yourself stop cutting, you can stop just about anything.
And know that nobody ever just "stops cutting." you can start cutting the first time, then after that you are forever marked a cutter. Each time you have a reason to cut, it will be its own miniscule battle. Its kind of like sex, after you lose your virginity its pretty damn hard to stop having sex. but cutting is a lot more dangerous.
please stop yourself though. if you have to, chew on your thumb or lip. but don't cut. or I'll haul my sorry a** down to where ever it is you live and beat the crap out of you personnally.
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