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Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 3:12 am
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Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 2:02 pm
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Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 2:38 pm
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Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 3:50 pm
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Wow. I am the same way, if I am going to do something, and if I promise I will go it, to myself, my God or Goddess, or anyone, then I am going to do it, no matter what. Yet, I cannot promise something I can't do, or think I can't do. I can't be a nice person, but I can Try and be a nice person. <3 Yeah, sorry if I went off track.
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Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 6:28 pm
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Kansas Kandi Wow. I am the same way, if I am going to do something, and if I promise I will go it, to myself, my God or Goddess, or anyone, then I am going to do it, no matter what. Yet, I cannot promise something I can't do, or think I can't do. I can't be a nice person, but I can Try and be a nice person. <3 Yeah, sorry if I went off track.
Have you found that such standards cause you to sacrifice things?
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Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 7:27 pm
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Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 10:14 pm
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Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 10:22 pm
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I'm not sure 'honour' code is the correct terminology for me, 'moral' code seems to fit better. My family has a very strong set of morals and I have lost friends over it. But I do not mourn these losses. As far as I or my family is concerned, if you could not fit into our morals, you were not worth being a friend in the first place. Example: a girl I knew invited me to spend the night with her and her boyfriend to celebrate they're new apartment, so I go over and we are watching movies, then he brings out weed. I ask to be taken home and have little, until evenually no contact with these people again. I'm not saying that if someone has ever done drugs at all that I won't be their friend, but if they are actively doing any kind of illegel substance, or involved in illegel activity, then no, I will not be around that person. Much of my family were/are military or work in correctional facilities.
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Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 10:54 pm
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Posted: Tue May 30, 2006 2:20 am
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Dragon_Witch_Woman I'm not sure 'honour' code is the correct terminology for me, 'moral' code seems to fit better. My family has a very strong set of morals and I have lost friends over it. But I do not mourn these losses. As far as I or my family is concerned, if you could not fit into our morals, you were not worth being a friend in the first place. Example: a girl I knew invited me to spend the night with her and her boyfriend to celebrate they're new apartment, so I go over and we are watching movies, then he brings out weed. I ask to be taken home and have little, until evenually no contact with these people again. I'm not saying that if someone has ever done drugs at all that I won't be their friend, but if they are actively doing any kind of illegel substance, or involved in illegel activity, then no, I will not be around that person. Much of my family were/are military or work in correctional facilities. Just on the flip side, I've been on the recieving end of something like this. I told my best friend I smoked in 8th grade because I thought enough of her not to want to hide anything from her. She thereafter refused to talk to me except for the short conversation in which she terminated our friendship. A couple months later I shared a joint with that very girl's older sister and I remember being so bitter. Of course it was ok if her own family did it, it just wasn't ok for me to. Malleable honor codes suck, especially if you're on the recieving end.
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Posted: Tue May 30, 2006 4:41 am
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missmagpie This sounds a bit worrying. neutral Is everything ok?
I'm a little sore, stiff, injured, bruised and angry.
I've been obliged to terminate a friendship and came very very close to terminating another.
There will be some frying involved, hopefully the pair of us can refrain cap'n carrot from doing anything we'll all regret.
Other than being a bit of a physical and emotional wreak, I'm good. Once the frying and cap'n carrot containment is dealt with, I'll be great.
missmagpie You can always have hugs if you need them though. biggrin smile
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Posted: Tue May 30, 2006 6:26 am
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Posted: Tue May 30, 2006 7:38 am
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Posted: Tue May 30, 2006 8:44 am
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Posted: Tue May 30, 2006 10:10 am
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