Personality:
Impatient - "Unable to wait patiently or tolerate delay; restless. Unable to endure irritation or opposition; intolerant." Time is precious, even for ghosts! She has things to do and doesn't take kindly to being made to wait.
Intolerant - "Unwilling to tolerate difference of opinion and narrow-minded about cherished opinions." 'Ettie can find herself not accepting excuses, believing others should be able to do just as well even with their faults. She can also be very stubborn with her opinions, unwilling to budge.
Proud - "Filled with or showing excessive self-esteem, and will often shirk help from others for the sake of pride."
While the actual details of her death are unknown, basically whether she was murdered or it was an accident, she tends to not worry about it so much. Once upon a time she did dwell on the past. She fretted about how she was killed, and who she was, to the point of constant depression. Now she prefers to live in the moment than to dwell on the past, enjoying the new life she has as a ghost! Or.. so it she claims. She might claim to live in the moment, but she hides her depression with a fake smile. While she has given up on the details on her death she still finds herself .. lacking. Incomplete. She struggles with her self image, keeping herself busy with her acts as a means to fill a void.
To people around her Harry seems to be charming, kind, and flamboyant. She thrives to be the center of attention and the center of the stage. She can be fickle, impatient, and intolerant at times. While she keeps a kind face to those close to her, her mood can change at flip of a hat! Her pride can also get the better of her at times, as she see's herself more talented than others. She can be known to lapse into French randomly.