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Posted: Wed Sep 19, 2012 5:32 am
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Posted: Wed Sep 19, 2012 7:26 am
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Posted: Wed Sep 19, 2012 7:43 am
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Posted: Wed Sep 19, 2012 8:23 am
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Posted: Thu Sep 20, 2012 6:09 am
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Hell, if that were me, I'd be dead scared to tell my parents about it. But what choice do I have since I can't abort it (and I wouldn't want to anyway). I mean, it's not like the baby's fault that he/she got conceived right? So yeah, even if I know they'll flay me alive, I just have to tell them because what can I do at the age of 16? I'm not even of age to just drive!
But I wouldn't go after the dad. One, he's probably just my age (I wouldn't go for someone who's 5-10 years older than me, eeww!), so he's probably just as clueless and as scared as me. I'll tell him about the baby, but I'm not going to get married to him or attach myself to him in any other way... yet. I mean, he could be a great guy who was caught up in the moment, and when we're older and have a more stable status in life, he is willing to take up responsibility. I'm not going to deny him that because probably by then, I'll also be thinking that he's the guy for me. Two, (which is kind of related to #1) I'm not going to tie myself to some b*****d out there whose main strength is that he likes to ********. I mean, I made the mistake already of getting pregnant, so I'm not going to cement that mistake by marrying him.
I actually have a friend who's in the same position as the girl you know, although she's 19 when she got pregnant. So I know how you feel when you made that discovery. Somehow, I felt that my best friend wasn't the same person anymore... like she was contaminated or something. I felt so sorry for her because she's in a really tough situation. I want to support her financially, but I'm just relying on my parents as well. I couldn't tell them because they'd stop me from seeing her because they'd think she's a bad influence for me. I just wanted to kill her boyfriend for what he did to her.
(Sorry for the rant)
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Posted: Thu Sep 20, 2012 8:08 am
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Posted: Fri Sep 21, 2012 3:01 pm
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Posted: Fri Sep 21, 2012 3:56 pm
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Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2012 8:59 pm
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Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2012 10:09 pm
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Posted: Wed Sep 26, 2012 8:32 am
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Knew a girl back in middle school that got pregnant and had a kid. She was only 12 or 13 at the time. It was pretty sad honestly, because I was an acquaintance when we were both in 6th grade, and she seemed nice then. Soon enough, she grew into a trouble student who acted out a lot and refused to do any work.
As for myself? I wouldn't have gotten pregnant at 16. 21 now and have never had any physical contact with a male other than a brief platonic hug. =/ I'm so paranoid now that even if I HAD a boyfriend, I would postpone everything sexual until I got myself on the pill, and would still use futher forms of contraception as precaution.
I'm personally pro-choice, but only under certain circumstances. If the girl was immature enough and made poor enough decisions, I don't believe she should abort at such a young age so carelessly unless herself or the baby would be in life-threatening danger. Have the child, give to to a loving family that will properly care for and lovingly raise it, and learn to live with your consequences. However, if one were raped, I feel it is a totally viable option. But! I know all of this is subject to each person and their beliefs, and I respect that.
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Posted: Wed Sep 26, 2012 10:23 am
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Posted: Wed Sep 26, 2012 10:55 am
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Posted: Wed Oct 03, 2012 9:01 pm
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Girl With The Windex Eyes
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Posted: Sun Oct 07, 2012 11:11 am
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