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PostPosted: Fri Feb 26, 2010 1:36 pm
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Seems to appear in comics/fanfiction often enough. Opinions? Comments?

Crossdressing: Exactly what it says: one of the boys (usually the "uke") dresses as a girl.

Boys that look like girls: Boys that look...well, more feminine than usual. Sometimes, to a ridiculous point. Case in point, Okane ga Nai.

Either that, or they're just a little...TOO weak, you know? Maybe it's just me >_>. Or too "girly" (I mean no offense...I'm just trying to make a point about stereotypical behavior...).

Sometimes it makes sense, like in "Croquis", as that's about a guy who wants to become a transexual so he has the right to love a man, so of course, he adopts some more traditionally feminine characteristics.

And then, sometimes it makes NO sense at all....though sometimes for laughs (which I suppose is a reason)...

Discuss discuss
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PostPosted: Sat Feb 27, 2010 9:27 am
Guys crossdressing or being...somewhat more feminine than normal is a plus for me.
:< I really love josou/josoo, dammit.

Also...just saying, but...guy + corset = super hot. FFFFFF-
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PostPosted: Sat Feb 27, 2010 9:34 am
Guy crossdressing (depending on the guy of course) isn't that bad to me. But if he pushes the line that Ayase (Okane ga Nai) quickly surpasses, it's a not so fond thing. (Exception made if the whole couple is a bit on the overly feminine side)

But I have to agree with you Lucinacia, guy in corset reaches a mind-blowingly level of hotness.
 
PostPosted: Sun Feb 28, 2010 1:01 am
Hey, crossdressing is more fun if the one who's doing it is the seme ;P But I think a cute uke dressing up with cute little hair clips ect is adorable XDD;;

Guys that look flat out like girls mmm well if it's like above example than...that would be like...Shoot I might as well just read a Shojo o_o; I don't mind girly guys but there has to be a limit in there >3>  

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 01, 2010 1:40 pm
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True true. Genderbending is fun.

But is there a limit?

Wow, that sounds dramatic...
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PostPosted: Mon Mar 01, 2010 1:52 pm
I don't mind it, crossdressing as my friend says:
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it adds to the story to make more sexually pleasure able for those of us who are Parasexual

or something like that. It also works well in S&M.

For feminine ones...works well if its for flirting or if your the sadistic uke type who acts all femmy and innocent to get the partner they like. But it nice in general every now and then. hehe  

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 07, 2010 4:54 am
Lucinacia

Also...just saying, but...guy + corset = super hot. FFFFFF-
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That... is a great idea. *goes to draw*

As far as crossdressing goes--
Fun fun fun. ^^
I usually stick to boyxboy illustrations (Because the manga I've read got way, way to repetitive), so the characters I draw/see normally don't have a 'personality'... sweatdrop
(Unless it's fanart.... and then, they're normally not feminine)
I think there is a limit to how 'girly' it can get. If said guy is already crossing some line, then... what's the point, really??  
PostPosted: Sun Mar 07, 2010 12:11 pm
Lucinacia

Also...just saying, but...guy + corset = super hot. FFFFFF-
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anyone + corset = super hot (also, anyone + high heels). It's retro sexy, the way it's meant to be 8D (god, there's this amazing retro fashion/fetish shop in the city, it's so fabulous argh)

*clears throat*
Well. I hate femmy characters in romantic situations. If it's fluffy, sure, it's a little cute, but not sexy. Not in any way. So characters like Ayase and Pico etc. piss me off enormously. I like my men to be men.

That's not to say I dislike crossdressing, because I encourage it, absolutely. This goes for both genders. But I still like them to be recognizable as their actual gender, because that adds to the charm.
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PostPosted: Mon Mar 08, 2010 2:41 pm
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Exactly! They ARE men, after all...

But yes, fetish-wear is a wonderful thing...
...But be sure to have fun!
 
PostPosted: Tue Mar 09, 2010 5:04 am

I touch the fire and it freezes me;
I look into it and it’s black.


I don't like girly, crossdressing ukes because then it turns my porn into het. The point was I was reading about two boys goin at it, which makes it hot. But they turn it into het, which makes it normal and no longer interesting. I don't mind if the guy in the girly stuff is still clearly male, with muscles and small eyes and stuff. But they make Ayase into a girl, and then my peen is no longer interested. :/



Why can’t I feel? My skin should crack and peel.
I want the fire back.
 

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PostPosted: Wed Mar 10, 2010 1:33 pm
Drakie Cakie

I touch the fire and it freezes me;
I look into it and it’s black.


I don't like girly, crossdressing ukes because then it turns my porn into het. The point was I was reading about two boys goin at it, which makes it hot. But they turn it into het, which makes it normal and no longer interesting. I don't mind if the guy in the girly stuff is still clearly male, with muscles and small eyes and stuff. But they make Ayase into a girl, and then my peen is no longer interested. :/



Why can’t I feel? My skin should crack and peel.
I want the fire back.
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rofl

This statement makes me laugh.
...But be sure to have fun!
 
PostPosted: Wed Mar 10, 2010 6:41 pm
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. . .I don't like seeing dudes cross-dressing and stuff. D=
It won't be yaoi anymore. >.>. . .






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PostPosted: Wed Mar 10, 2010 9:20 pm
I can only enjoy genderbenders if theyre not too extreme.
Like, extreme to the point where the uke might as well be a girl.

He has to look like a male other than no boobs and a p***s.
 
PostPosted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 9:45 am
I guess I'm kinda picky about crossdressing. It's alright if it's done for humor, and the outfit is actually a nice one. Otherwise, I Do Not Want.
Short skirts on guys are not sexy, and neither is tight clothing. (Though shirts can be a little snug on the chest, I don't mind. <3)

As for girly guys. Well, I actually like a little bit of femininity, so long as I can still tell they're male. If they're so completely feminine that I wonder why the artist just didn't go all the way and make the character female, then... that's a big turn off for me.  

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 11:32 am
Hmmm... I think crossdressing is fine as long as it's used as a ploy for a humorous situation and done tastefully (no genderf***).

Now, if a character is effeminate/androgynous that's a plus for me, but exceedingly girly is BAD. I already can't stand extremely girly girls.
 
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