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Posted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 4:28 pm
When we're talking the uke and seme in the relationship, does height honestly matter? Sexually-speaking, of course.
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Posted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 4:30 pm
Can I ask you a question please? . . . Howdy, Maxlovescoffee. Drakielovescoffee, too. biggrin
Anyway, as for your question, I'm an old-fashioned guy and I prefer the uke to be shorter. That, or if they're of equal height. I don't care much about muscle mass, but I like my ukes to be shorter. :> . . .
P romise you won’t laugh at me?
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Posted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 5:21 pm
As long as the height difference isn't extreme, I probably won't give a damn.
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Posted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 6:06 pm
Drakie Cakie Can I ask you a question please? . . . Howdy, Maxlovescoffee. Drakielovescoffee, too. biggrin
Anyway, as for your question, I'm an old-fashioned guy and I prefer the uke to be shorter. That, or if they're of equal height. I don't care much about muscle mass, but I like my ukes to be shorter. :> . . .
P romise you won’t laugh at me?Well, Drakie, Maxlikesyou!
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Posted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 11:54 pm
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Posted: Fri Jul 10, 2009 3:28 am
"Seriousness is the refuge of the shallow."
To me, it doesn't really matter, I've read some yaoi with shorter semes (not many, though) and I thought it was a nice change from the usual height rule. I do sort of like my ukes a liiiittle bit shorter, or at least the same height, usually, because it gets a bit awkward with a taller uke sometimes. - Oscar Wilde.
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Posted: Fri Jul 10, 2009 4:39 am
I think the height rule is silly. It's almost as if people have convinced themselves that ukes must be small, delicate and feminine and fit into their seme's arms like a fragile flower. *gags* No thanks.
Big, small, short, tall, they come in all shapes and sizes and I prefer it that way. I'm not gonna let some wimpy height rule get in the way of things.
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Posted: Fri Jul 10, 2009 1:04 pm
Generally speaking, when a pairing is presented the shorter of the two is presumed to be the submissive. This is a stereotype following that most girls are shorter then guys, and to be more feminine is to be shorter. It's obviously not a concrete rule, and has little significance when judging people outside the yaoi arena.
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Posted: Sat Jul 11, 2009 4:48 pm
I think shorter ukes are cute and kinda what I prefer. I don't know but taller ukes just seem alittle strange to me sadly.
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Posted: Sun Jul 12, 2009 8:51 am
I don't care..when I read..personally I would like my guy to be taller cause i like to rest my head on his chest when he hugs me..but ya know I'm never gonna get a guy so wishful thinking
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Posted: Sun Jul 12, 2009 7:08 pm
No, it doesn't matter to me at all. In fact, sometimes I think a tall uke would make for an interesting story. Like if he had a peculiar background and personality.
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Posted: Sun Jul 12, 2009 7:46 pm
I don't care as long as the uke isn't too feminine.
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Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 4:57 am
Maxlovescoffee When we're talking the uke and seme in the relationship, does height honestly matter? Sexually-speaking, of course. I don't think so. Thinking that an uke has to be shorter than the seme is reinforcing that stereotype. And anyway... Height doesn't matter when you're lying down.
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Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 6:12 am
Hmm I don't think it does. But I've noticed that the taller one is always seme and the shorter is always uke ^_^
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Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 7:06 am
D: well, i'd like someone who's taller than me but that kinda hard. >///< I'm already 6 feet tall.
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