Why is is always with the buttsechs?

[Shard Of Ronin]

Here's the thing: while I have no problem with buttsechs (I admit nothing!), I find that many 'casuals' in the fandom seem to assume it to be the only option for male/male sex. Have you noticed this?

Sample conversation:
Me: No, I think they'd get together.
Fan 1: How? He'd never stick it in, or let anyone stick it in him, he's way to prissy.
Me: Well yeah, but what about all the other stuff?
Fan 1: I meant proper sex.
Me: Well, there is more than just that, you know. . .
Fan 1: Well where else would they stick it?

You know what I mean?  

[Enzai Sebby3]

Its just people being ignorant lol
There are more things you can do with sex than *cough* giving and taking ninja  

[Pretty Pretty Priceless]

In the mouth *slapped*  

[Labtech Abi]

Silly ignorant people. There's so much one can do with the human body.  

[latitude_cat]

if you've never had sex or watched pron, then you don't know anything about it these days. anyways, there's no such thing as "proper" sex. sex is just sex. so long as you don't break anything (unless that's your goal eek ), then it's about as "proper" as it's going to get, no matter where it's done,  

[Jaaku-san]

Wait, is your issue that the person you were talking with didn't understand how sex can happen without penetration, or that the only reason that person saw for those two to get together was for sex?  

[Forlornhope13]

-coughs- I'm actually kinda lost, I thought that was basically all it was......  

[Pretty Pretty Priceless]

Forlornhope13

-coughs- I'm actually kinda lost, I thought that was basically all it was......

You are quite mistaken dear. There is another ....hole men can (and do) use.

 

[Revis_Engard]

My my......such topics make a guy like me blush>//////<  

[latitude_cat]

XIII falling stars

Forlornhope13

-coughs- I'm actually kinda lost, I thought that was basically all it was......

You are quite mistaken dear. There is another ....hole men can (and do) use.

Doesn't necessarily have to be a hole either. Certain crevasses have enough...um how do I put this...wrap and fat to sort of form a "hole." If you've seen hentai or pron, it's the equivalent of ******** (p***s between the breast). A friend of mine (omg i hope he never reads me telling yall about this sweatdrop ) had a moresome once and one of the guys had sex with his knee... on the inside bend. Something I've seen on pron is using the scrotum in the same manner, but the guy was kinda lacking girth so that's I imagine the only way it worked.

Oh wow, I hope I don't get kicked out of the guild for this kind of details gonk  

[Spontanious Alias]

Listen it isn't just about the smexy time. There's more to getting together then that. I'm sure anyone with a briain will come to terms with the fact that a relationship that's worth while isn't about the bed. However why would you need a hole, there are so many options. Why not be creative for once *Rolls eyes*  

[Duckysushi]

Well. I'd say they'd think that being the female fans and all. Having it so beat into them that sex is sticking the p***s in the v****a, or a**s as it is here... Sighface.  

[Pretty Pretty Priceless]

Girlie Hero

XIII falling stars

Forlornhope13

-coughs- I'm actually kinda lost, I thought that was basically all it was......

You are quite mistaken dear. There is another ....hole men can (and do) use.

Doesn't necessarily have to be a hole either. Certain crevasses have enough...um how do I put this...wrap and fat to sort of form a "hole." If you've seen hentai or pron, it's the equivalent of ******** (p***s between the breast). A friend of mine (omg i hope he never reads me telling yall about this sweatdrop ) had a moresome once and one of the guys had sex with his knee... on the inside bend. Something I've seen on pron is using the scrotum in the same manner, but the guy was kinda lacking girth so that's I imagine the only way it worked.

Oh wow, I hope I don't get kicked out of the guild for this kind of details gonk

That kind of stuff is really somewhat of a rarity. It's more in the fetish section of things.....I think. (I'm still a (technical) virgin.) But yeah, I think most guys would consider that quite strange if asked to partake in that.

 

[Pretty Pretty Priceless]

Spontanious Alias

Listen it isn't just about the smexy time. There's more to getting together then that. I'm sure anyone with a briain will come to terms with the fact that a relationship that's worth while isn't about the bed. However why would you need a hole, there are so many options. Why not be creative for once *Rolls eyes*

This is true.
But to many women (or should I say fangirls since that is really the topic here)
don't really care about how the relationship is going, they just want to see the action. Now there are exceptions to this (many memebers of this guild seem to be in that exception) but really many just want to see/know about the bedroom action and think it's only in the butt.

 

[[`Novacaine]]

oh what has the world come to! one way is no fun.
I have plenty of fangirl friends who read smut and get so excited about it, and Im not happy with what im watching/reading unless the plot/relationship is well established.