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My housemate (John) seems to think that because I'm not miserable and bitter anymore that he has nothing to relate to me now (which speaks volumes of how healthy that friendship was before now x_x).

From this he comes to the idiotic conclusion that I am abandoning him as a friend and that this is somehow an excuse to act as much like a childish douchebag to me as possible.

He wonders why he loses so many friends and why no one likes him anymore. Error is long done with John and Mouse (my other housemate's boyfriend) is pretty much fed up with him. Even Rose (my other Housemate) is only still interacting with him for short bursts because she feels responsible for his well being (she is very much the giver personality). I'm pretty much done with him. We're moving out because of how much of a worthless piece of s**t he's being to us and everyone else.

After the move, because I get what it's like to be steeped in denial and need a hand, I'll give him a last chance and make the overtures necessary to say I still want to be friends provided he treats me properly. If he goes for it, we'll see if this is salvageable.

If he doesn't go for it, he'll lose one of maybe 10 friends (yes that is his total) and 1 of maybe 2 close friends.

And he'll only have himself to blame.

Nuri, what hair style is that? It's so cute, I want to steal it ninja

a few more animals that just shouldn't exist....

creepy!

some are just weird though.

except when you find one of those spiders living in its coat...complete with 4 generations of family!

muwhahahaha!

I went shopping for apartment stuff with my mum and her best friend Judi today. Now, Judi's had both hips replaced and had radiation treatment for cancer two years ago. She's fiftysomething and slow-moving because of her hips; every fifteen steps or so, my mum and I had to stop so she could catch up.

AND SHE WORE MY MUM AND ME OUT. gonk

And now I know to never, ever get in her way when she's bargain-hunting and to get plenty of sleep and load up on caffeine before a day of shopping with her.

I hope you don't find it offensive that I find it somewhat comforting knowing your taking that stuff. I'm taking it too, though it only helps with part of the problem, but knowing someone like you is on it makes me realize I'm not beyond hope. I hope that doesn't come out as offensive.


And Poe from the complete opposite perspective, I was afraid I couldn't relate to my depressed best friend anymore now that I'm no longer miserable. We were having trouble getting along when we shared a room together though it had more to do with two obsessive compulsive people in closed quarters, and now we're thick as thieves again. Hopefully the same will be true for your roommates. Good luck with the moving :O!

well, after months of deliberating whether i should or shouldn't purchase it...

i finally bought P90X and will be using that to attain my goals, pre-boot camp. i've had 3 friends who want to burn the discs too so we can all work on it.

i don't know if i should be happy i finally did it, or sad i bought into commercialism.

contradictions? now i must know...

*steeples her fingers*