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Entry 17- Save Me From Him
Normally, I don't talk about this kind of thing anywhere on the internet, but I have to get this off my chest. I've been thinking about it so much that I can't focus on anything else.

I have this friend, whom we'll call Louis. Louis is a nice guy, really happy to be around anyone, cheerful, things like that. I like Louis as a friend, nothing more. He seems to think the same way about me.

The problem is that yesterday, he told me that he would like us to be "friends with benefits" and that it would have no change in our friendship. Now, I don't know about you, but this seems like a bad idea. Last time I did anything like this with someone else, I ended up never talking to them after that, and it's been two years now.

So, what is someone suppose to do? I mean, we made out yesterday, which was a complete surprise to me, but I don't want this to evolve into something like that! I just want to be friends with him, and that's it. I should just avoid him until I get a boyfriend, I think.

That's it. Feel free to leave comments about what you think if you want. If you don't want to, I completely understand.

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    dontpickme
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    Thu May 28, 2009 @ 05:24am


    yay for journals w00tness, but yes, thats not really so much of a good sign. If hes going to say he wants to be friends with benefits and yet wants to still be JUST friends, that will never happen =/ things would change if that were to happen. I've seen situations with that happen at school @_@ but you posted this a while back so it must've meant you have already dealt with it someway, so i hope you did whatever you felt was right =]


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